This whining isn't normal. As someone said, it's the FIRST DAY of the school holidays and a weekend. He left yesterday. There's something far from right with her wiring, she's two sandwiches short of a picnic up top that one.
Mrs Meldrum #112 Tell me you're bored and unemployed without telling me you're bored and u
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Lee is so going to pay for daring to go away. He will be on a very tight leash for the rest of the summer.
So yesterday was a school day as normal and could have done an easy pizza treat dinner. Today was probably swimming or something then soft play with friends. Ok, I know softplay is tit but there would have been coffee (oh, I forgot, she’s sooooo sensitive to caffeine) and they went back to friends house for food.
So the actual amount of parenting she has had to do these two days has been minimal.
Her lack of coping skills and total lack of insight that this is an issue and outwith the band of reasonable behaviour is raising real red flags with me now.
She really needs to stop bloody moaning about how hard she’s got now the girls are getting older.
S is going in to Primary 6 after the holidays and F primary 3 they are not toddlers anymore that need everything doing for them. I’m sure they are more than capable of getting themselves ready in the morning bar doing their own hair. Getting themselves snacks, putting dishes in the dishwasher, showering (maybe a bit of help with their hair but can do the rest themselves). P is 4 in a month, I’m sure she’s able to do more for herself now too.
A few weeks ago she said the girls did 10 after school activities, but on her q&a when she listed them they were only doing 7. She tells so many stupid lies she can’t keep her stories straight.
S is going in to Primary 6 after the holidays and F primary 3 they are not toddlers anymore that need everything doing for them. I’m sure they are more than capable of getting themselves ready in the morning bar doing their own hair. Getting themselves snacks, putting dishes in the dishwasher, showering (maybe a bit of help with their hair but can do the rest themselves). P is 4 in a month, I’m sure she’s able to do more for herself now too.
A few weeks ago she said the girls did 10 after school activities, but on her q&a when she listed them they were only doing 7. She tells so many stupid lies she can’t keep her stories straight.
I bet she will make lees life hell how dare he go away and enjoy himself playing golf in Fife according to his linked in.
Why would she not clean the car before showing off?
No pelaton talk i take it in days.
Thought Lee be keen go give it a go.
As they get older they are more independent they can make their own snacks and basic meals.
My 10 year old frequently makes himself a bacon sandwich.
Gets their own drink and helps with the 3 year old.
How miserable is she.
Shes new car. Lee be home soon.
They went out other night to pub
Shes met chums and been fed today
She has Tony.
Nothing makes her happy , always whining and moaning.
Also she has sell the s max that will be a chore won't reach the 7k asking.
Why would she not clean the car before showing off?
No pelaton talk i take it in days.
Thought Lee be keen go give it a go.
As they get older they are more independent they can make their own snacks and basic meals.
My 10 year old frequently makes himself a bacon sandwich.
Gets their own drink and helps with the 3 year old.
How miserable is she.
Shes new car. Lee be home soon.
They went out other night to pub
Shes met chums and been fed today
She has Tony.
Nothing makes her happy , always whining and moaning.
Also she has sell the s max that will be a chore won't reach the 7k asking.
No mention of Tony, Lumi or the Prince in days. 
She is selfish, lazy and stupid. Selfish as resents doing anything for anyone except herself inc her own kids and OH. Lazy as she can not be bothered to parent her 3 healthy kids, who mostly go to school/nursery in the week. Stupid because she is too thick to realise how fortunate she is. I would go back to when my kids were primary school age and I was a SAHM in a minute. Now I run a company, and work 3 days a week. I’ve had to manage a child with cancer, another with a processing disorder and anxiety, and one that developed panic attacks (all due to seeing their brother so ill), whilst OH works away and or long hours week in week out. Oh to go back to those easy, fun filled days with little kids! You never know what’s around the corner, she has no clue how challenging life can be! Perfect example was waking up with a crick in her neck and needing a GP appt !!
Im confused- why is Lee’s linked In page showing that he’s away playing golf? am i reading that right?!
I feel like they’ve all been chucked out!!No mention of Tony, Lumi or the Prince in days.
Maybe she's flogged them or Lee took them away on the lads break.
Its under activity comments hes commented on pics of golf grounds and said he can't wait to go play there in June. The comments from 2months ago was clearly trip planned ages ago and special if she let him go.
They seem forget how wide their digital footprint is.
Also proves beggy not lying for a change.
I usually just laugh at her total ineptude but that story, ‘it’s just a lot’ has fucked me right off.
I feel so sorry for those little girls. I grew up with a mum who made it clear she despised being a parent.
Rebecca, you have it easier and better than anyone I know, and that’s knowing heaps of expats who have live in maids, - your kids and you are (physically) healthy, you have able parents and family near by, you don’t work, and your husband and you are ‘together’.
please take a good hard look at your lives, get some counselling and appreciate all you have got instead of looking back in awe at what you didn’t appreciate when a calamity of illness, death, bankruptcy, divorce, affair Etc happens. Cos guess what? tit does happen.
I feel so sorry for those little girls. I grew up with a mum who made it clear she despised being a parent.
Rebecca, you have it easier and better than anyone I know, and that’s knowing heaps of expats who have live in maids, - your kids and you are (physically) healthy, you have able parents and family near by, you don’t work, and your husband and you are ‘together’.
please take a good hard look at your lives, get some counselling and appreciate all you have got instead of looking back in awe at what you didn’t appreciate when a calamity of illness, death, bankruptcy, divorce, affair Etc happens. Cos guess what? tit does happen.
I know being a mum can be overwhelming but she literally does the bare minimum for 3 weeks then disappears into a bubble of me time while Lee (thankfully) cares for the girls & seems to run the house.
Surely to god all the housework/cooking/admin can be done when they’re at school & nursery?! God if I had one day with all the kids out the house I’d be set up for the week.
Surely to god all the housework/cooking/admin can be done when they’re at school & nursery?! God if I had one day with all the kids out the house I’d be set up for the week.
God I hope Lee is living his absolute best wee life on a total bender as that will be last chance of freedom & socialising for a lonnnnng time. God I’ve never been filled with so much rage at a person I don’t even know just through tit they post on Instagram but she’s just VILE. So self involved, self absorbed, narcissistic- the list is endless! I mean we know they both obsess over here you’d think she’d give her big moon head a wobble and take the constructive comments posted and you know, get a job, enjoy her girls and realise what a very privileged (pathetic) life she has and how NO-ONE is jealous of her, she’s a laughing stock.
*And breathe….!* now back to work
*And breathe….!* now back to work
Saddest part of that was she said it in front of the kids
Am so sorry. One of those is more than enough for any parent to cope with. But collectively that just really is so unfair. I bet you’re a wonderful mum too, always the way it’s always the lovely, kind people who get the crap! And people like Beggy float through life moaning about having three healthy children while she doesn’t even work and walking and doing whatever she wants when she wants.
Like you said things can change in a heartbeat and you wish you had appreciated when life was easier and simpler. However, even if you said this to her she wouldn’t take a blind bit of notice, she is selfish and ignorant to the core.
I really can’t believe she said she “only just about managed to survive” the day, when they spent the morning at soft play and the rest of the day at her friends house where her friend fed them all and the children played. A morning as soft play with her age children (with no additional needs) is SO easy! You can just sit back with a coffee. Same goes for the afternoon - she didn’t even need to make meals for the kids! Ludicrous
It worries me as well about how she talks around the kids, especially Poppy. I was the youngest of three and felt like I wasn’t wanted and felt I was labelled as the naughty one. Its definitely had a big impact on me which I’m now working hard on to reverse the effects of
It worries me as well about how she talks around the kids, especially Poppy. I was the youngest of three and felt like I wasn’t wanted and felt I was labelled as the naughty one. Its definitely had a big impact on me which I’m now working hard on to reverse the effects of
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I can’t believe she found that a hard day. I’m taking my little one back to the same soft play tomorrow for his first visit since March 2020 and I can’t wait to surprise him and watch him enjoying himself whilst sitting with a coffee. It’s not like she needs to go in with hers so it’s literally a couple of hours rest for her knowing they are contained and can’t go far whilst burning off some energy 
I’m really struggling to understand why she had children as she seems to hate all the usual aspects of parenting and doesn’t engage with them as little individuals at all. They are just a cluster of annoyance to her which is so sad to see and hear. I hope for their sake she has them signed up to some summer clubs so at least they can have a nice time.
I’m really struggling to understand why she had children as she seems to hate all the usual aspects of parenting and doesn’t engage with them as little individuals at all. They are just a cluster of annoyance to her which is so sad to see and hear. I hope for their sake she has them signed up to some summer clubs so at least they can have a nice time.
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