I don’t even go to the toilet on my own. One pottering around, the other sitting in front of me
Luckily partner only works 37 hours a week.
Yeah I know they’re our kids and it’s our responsibility but it’s so tough sometimes isn’t it? Some people need to appreciate all the help they get. We don’t argue much really but we don’t have the intimacy anymore. We hug, toddler kicks off. She clings to me and baby going through the separation anxiety phase. Can’t work because I’ve got baby, can’t afford childcare for eldest because I don’t work.
What we have to tell ourselves is, it gets better and easier. One day they’ll be older and won’t want our attention.