Well that wasā¦staged! You can see the boys looking at someone all the time. Wonder how many times theyāve been rehearsing that? Is this what takes up all of her time then? Busy working woman!!
sheās the most uninspiring person on the planet. STOP using your kids Hinch in this way. Give them their privacy.
That's what emotional and psychological abuse looks like, as well as gaslighting.
That's their whole life right there.
That's why she's more excited about seeing her animals because animals give attention and love to anyone really, they don't care. With children that just doesn't happen, and she just wants the attention from something.
The kids will love her, but they'll be conflicted even at their age because they have no attachment, know there's something not quite right in what's going on and know that the attention comes from doing something, even if they have to do it over and over.
Or, they'll do what she wants even though they feel uncomfortable because any attention is good attention.
I'll bet my arse that they do fight and are hard work, but not like normal siblings. It will be because she shouts and chases them around.. again, negative attention is attention in their eyes.
I've seen it, I've lived it and seen the mental health consequences.
It doesn't end well Soph. That confliction turns out that your kids keep you at arms length at best and at worst cut you the fuck out.
Good luck with that!