And the precursor to all of this is when a man does a chore, say the washing up, and say I've done the washing up for you, that is so demeaning. It's not a woman's job to wash dishes, but by relegating the woman to the subservient being, there to serve a man and his needs, encouraging this behaviour is toxic. So that ridiculous hin who said she would drop her pants if her husband hoovered, WHY. Why would you use sex as a reward. Because the man has done one of the 'woman's' jobs? That's disgusting and sad, I really thought we had moved on from that. My husband would never say he had washed the dishes for me, he would just say oh I've done the washing up or whatever, and that's fine. It's his mess too!