I agree but I don't think it's that they're out of control, I believe she thinks that's what relatable parenting is - screaming, out of control, hard work. I think those little lads are just like any other 3/1 year old and have their moments, but overall are gorgeous little people. She takes it online and moans about them having tantrums left right and centre when in reality it was one tantrum but to her that's not relatable enough so she feels the need to paint them as absolute demons.
I don't know about her not parenting them properly, probably not, but I think she plays up how difficult she finds them to appear to be "just a normal mama guysh".
Anyway, she probably had fiddle tagging along 2 steps behind to help out when it all got too tiring for her. It's a lot of work, being off the sofa for a few hours!