What on earth does that sweet little boy do to be publicly labelled as "very naughty"? My 3.5 year old is a little shitbag sometimes but I'd never describe them as naughty, just a normal small person! I get his needs may cause the odd meltdown or he might lash out in frustration but that really shows how little she understands her own child if she calls that naughty behaviour. Or even if it's curiosity that she's labelling as naughty (like when my eldest cut their own hair the week before their nativity performance ) it makes it clear how weird her standards are for little kids.