Mrs Hinch #456 Soph is currently the only melt in Greggs

[Kiki1989]

I just think she's looking for a brand partnership with a speech app tbh. Maybe I'm just being cynical but I was looking for the ad sign on the post

 

[HildaOgden - OG Cleaner]

I am by no means an expert in SALT but I am a teacher and I do understand how learning works so I will Wade in with opinions on this.

firstly - it’s appalling that she’s just thrown that story up like that. Poorly typed, looks rushed and desperate and not for the right reasons. This is where she riles us with this topic - she makes out like all is hunky dory. “There” “wheels on the bus”. But it isn’t is. I completely get how frustrating it must be to watch your child battle language. A close relatives daughter didn’t talk until she was 4. They learned makaton and did it all day every day with her. She picked it up eventually and was much happier when she could communicate finally. One day speech came. But makaton was amazing in the interim. Her comprehension was excellent. We have no idea whether Ronnie actually comprehends what’s said to him and that makes all the difference here.
Secondly - I just don’t believe she has fully invested herself into helping Ronnie. I really don’t. Harsh as it sounds she spends more time doing her make up each day than signing with Ronnie. I wouldn’t ever say a parent is the cause of their child’s speech issue but she and Inch are a huge factor in the reason things haven’t progressed - whatever that looks like. This is not something that happens overnight.
Finally (for now) - don’t parade this all over insta like this. This is not how you seek help. You seek it privately. You find the right agencies and seek them through private messages. You keep your child protected and off Instagram.
no one trolls Ronnie. We all want what’s best for him.
sadly I’d say this is more about lack of likes than anything else.

Remember he recently asked about a man eating paper?
She has the money to go private and get her son in front of a speech therapist faster than the average parent, so why hadn’t she?

She bleeping turns my stomach!! She always pulls some sort of MASSIVE victim stunt when she gets caught out and this week she was caught out on her Greggs lie and her selfish, thoughtless Remembrance Day photo op stunt. I’m not surprised she’s posted this about Ron today. But what parent, with her cash, waits till 29 months have passed (not “past”) and relies on app when they’re genuinely worried about their non-verbal son and asks their public social media platform for help? She’s a sly bleep and I wouldn’t trust a word she says.

That woman is deranged. Soph, get help for yourself. If Soph and her family can’t see what’s wrong with her behaviour then god help Ron.

 

[Needacuppa]

But I thought Rons lack of speech and other noted things...mainly by tattlers was down to Lockdown...having no.siblings
And didn't he 'say mumma' this summer. And he has said 'yeah' a few times both with Inch and Hinch. Oh and Dadad. Or have they named Inch that. Usually pet names like that are so because it's how the children pronounce it. As has been said...without all these fake cover ups there would have been no issue. Tattles have shown more dignity and concern for that little lad most of his 29months. She is playing for sympathy...like she did after PeppaPig as she has fooked up grand scale after yesterday AGAIN. Fancy using your vulnerable child like this. Very sad times!! *edited typo*

 

[Suebigfatsue87]

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This is the one time she does want to come and have a browse on Tattle you know because she hasn't been on here since God was a lad.
Tattlers have been giving loads of advice from personal experience etc. No negative comments on here about Ronnie and his speech. Only support from what I've seen.
The only negativity I've seen has been from her 'he can speak perfectly well thank you' 'he asked why the man was smoking paper' and 'he sings wheels on the bus'.
Horrible to lie about your own child like she does.
Glad she is reaching out but I hope she takes it on board and this isn't just for engagement.
I do wonder if shoving a phone in his face all the time doesn't help. My SIL used to do this with our nephew all the time. He's 3 now and has very limited speech. But....he's come on leaps and bounds these past few months and coincidently during these past few months she's not been plastering him all over Facebook and Instagram. Just a thought. Anyways....routing for Ronnie

not being funny but she really doesn’t do herself any favours.

speech and language therapists go to university for 3 years. They have to be registered with hcpc and you can find who is registered by searching on the register. I work a lot with slts and they are amazing. They do transform kids speech. Why on earth would she not actually google and see what slts do?

honestly she’s on another planet.

i do work closely with speech impairments to, as you all know as a lot of them can end up occurring with the sort of disorders I work with like autism and adhd. But slts really are very undervalued, under appreciated and we are in dire need of more of these people. A lot of the stuff I learned was from the slts I work with, we often cross one another and plan intervention together if there is a condition which requires quite a lot of input from both of our fields.

im embarrassed that she hasn’t spent time researching what slts do to be honest. Would of been an ideal way to mention rcslt and the brilliant work they also do with adults to as they’ve been over run with long covid referrals causing issues with swallowing etc

duck sake, your son clearly is struggling with all areas of his speech, receptive expressive social ! Go and bloody read about it yourself instead of relying on your huns who can barely spell their own name!

also the woeful ignorance of asking for anecdotal advice like every speech impairment or nd condition is the same is just ridiculous.

using autism as a example Stephen shore once said if you’ve met one person with autism you’ve met one person with autism

every diagnosis is different and will need different intervention based on many variable factors.
Furthermore let’s not forget she does not need to rely on nhs slts and can pay for private therapy.

 

[cm1985]

She “has no tolerance for passive aggressive comments” she is the master of passive aggressive comments . What happened to “he can speak perfikly well fank yooo” daft twit is only addressing it after being caught lying. What a bleep.

 

[EmmaE54]

I'm sorry but with all that money she can afford to go private to get help. Why say he can speak perfectly well when he cant and that's ok if he cant.
29 months no hes 2 hun

 

[Suebigfatsue87]

Ron is 2 years old “YEARS” 29 months

Can’t stand defending her but at his age hcps often use months to refer to age because of norms they hit and using it as a basis in standardised assessments to compare to other children. Maybe she’s doing it for that reason

 

[liltatling]

Oh the irony this was shared on their Instagram page a mere few days ago.
Take note Sopha!

 

[nursemum12]

Edited to say I even missed a couple
why is it not we or me & Jamie

Spoken like a true narc that's why it’s all me me me x

 

[Michelle1984]

Infuriating Google private speech therapists there is no waiting list £80 - £100 per session about £250 for an initial assessment. She has lots of money, what an absolute tit!!!!!!!

 

[IrishCatlady]

I hope the writing is on the wall and Ronnie finally gets his privacy back

 

[Dexty2021]

Is she looking for free private speech therapy now???

You’ve got the cash - pay for everything but remember what you do every day will be what makes the difference if any.

And also isn’t he Ronnie with or without speech? Her love seems conditional upon him achieving targets. Just love the little lad for being himself.

 

[Blaggings]

What gets me is how many “I”s are in her post. There is no “Ronnie is getting frustrated” or “he seems unhappy being unable to communicate and we want to better his life” or “it’d be lovely if he could communicate with friends and tell nursey staff what he needs” or anything about Ronnie. It’s al about how she’s desperate and she’s wishes something will stick. I get as a mum you would be, it must be incredibly tough. But her motivations seem on herself not him and others. It’s a meltdown rant rather than an act of warmth.

 

[BabyOctopus]

Not sure why she's moaning she can't get Ron any help when she's denied there's been any problems for at least a year solid "he can speak perfectly well thank you". She has the money to go private and to get Ron professional help straight away. She should acknowledge her priveliged position as not many people can go private, and have no option but to spend months (or years) on NHS waiting lists.

She also needs to realise sharpish that Ron having additional needs isn't something that can be "fixed" or "cured", so the goal is to find a method of communication that allows R to express his needs. And this may never be verbal speech. He may communicate via makaton / sign language or even AAC on an ipad when he's older. I think it would be a source of shame for Hinch because she'd view it as a failure. And that's really sad. She's tried to keep Ron's needs hidden for so long and I think she's only discussing it now because he's at an age where she can't pretend he speaks, and also she's probably trying to find a way of monetising the situation

 

[Michelle1984]

Infuriating Google private speech therapists there is no waiting list £80 - £100 per session about £250 for an initial assessment. She has lots of money, what an absolute tit!!!!!!!

This has wound me up!!! Having money makes your life so much easier!! You don't need to ask this on Instagram absolutely shameful! I know a mum at my school absolutely desperate for speech therapy for her 6 year old son, still on waiting list! I would hand her the money tomorrow if I had it to go private! I have just recently done private speech therapy for my child BUT only because we had family pay for it for us! She has so much bloody privilege it's disgusting how she acts!!!

 

[IrishCatlady]

What gets me is how many “I”s are in her post. There is no “Ronnie is getting frustrated” or “he seems unhappy being unable to communicate and we want to better his life” or “it’d be lovely if he could communicate with friends and tell nursey staff what he needs” or anything about Ronnie. It’s al about how she’s desperate and she’s wishes something will stick. I get as a mum you would be, it must be incredibly tough. But her motivations seem on herself not him and others. It’s a meltdown rant rather than an act of warmth.

And there lies her problem

 

[Nigelsback]

She’s a millionaire!! I’m sure she could quite easily source a private SALT!!

 

[WestHighlandWy]

Don't fret me little lamb chops, my account isn't deleted, like I'd ever leave this thread my 2 little girls had what looked like a cold on Sunday but got worse all week, anyway it resulted to an emergency trip to hospital last night for them both, both have bacterial pneumonia and very sore ears, both of them home with lots of antibiotics,and are asleep in mummys big bed with their daddy as we speak, he's not feeling well at all either!!

Ahh Danielle, hope everyone is okay, lots of love to you Lots of fluids an rest, let plenty of air in the house.. sending you hugs

 

[Somerset girl]

I just think she's looking for a brand partnership with a speech app tbh. Maybe I'm just being cynical but I was looking for the ad sign on the post

Yup this. As a previous poster said she's not short of a few bob so surely she could afford to pay privately for it?

 

[Ditzymama28]

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Such a narcissistic witch it's the only way she knows how to be to make every bleeping thing about her