I actually agree with it all. I always felt sorry for my husband when our kids were born as I felt I knew them before they were born whereas he was just getting to know them at birth. I was always so protective of my bump and talked to it. I think she’s only having kids for Jamie and for the gram. She hasn’t a maternal bone in her body
I personally don't have a maternal bone in by body, I am a mum of 2 and I love my kids, would do anything for them, but it isn't really about being maternal to me, it's about being there, some people it comes easier to than others, in no way am I sticking up for hinch as she should be showing something of a motherly love by now, but some times it does take longer to 'connect' (possibly not the right word to use' but when I had my first I suffered terrible pnd where I didn't want to be here anymore, so it took time to connect with my first, its not always a love at first sight moment like many parents say,
But you would of thought it would of kicked in almost 2 years down the line
And this also doesn't just happen to women, My partner struggled to connect with our second and it took him time to get to know her