I've been thinking it for a while, but today it's clearer than ever how much she could have done with her account and didn't because it wouldn't earn her money. But what it would earn is people's respect. GIVING BACK. But she can never be arsed. I contemplated making suggestions on her Q&A thing today but thought/knew I would get blocked anyway so didn't really see the point. She only ever does things to benefit herself and it really REALLY pisses me off. My thoughts:
1. Monthly charity day. One day of the month, every month, she shares a charity that needs more promotion/recognition. One sodding day. Couple of posts. Doesn't need to be paid because the charity is more important. Staying what the charity means to her, what they do and how she gets involved with them (she would need to actually do stuff to support them instead of last minute food bank panic trips but you know what I mean).
2. Dare I say it, first time mum tips and parenting tips. Actually sharing her experiences. I don't like her, but given the audience she has, this would be well reciprocated. I mean along the lines of activities to do with your children that don't involve buying loads of
tit. She could be a massive educator (trying not to grimace at this because the woman is thick as two planks) in this field, and you know, ACTUALLY be relatable soph. But that's too much effort.
3. Instead of crying trolls all the time and using it as a sympathy card to avoid accountability for her cock ups and hide her SS jealousy, she could actually be some form of ambassador (think Holly from GS who got HORRIBLY trolled), because she has probably had some horrible messages, they're just not from tattle.
4. HONESTY. Life isn't all sunshine and roses and I think people would have a lot more respect and (perish the thought) like her more if she showed the
tit, the things that haven't gone right, show RonTyson throw a
witch fit, show the ups and downs of motherhood and make people feel that they can actually relate, instead of trying to buy her respect through all the swipe ups. It's fine the fish tank didn't go to plan and the fish died, don't get all sensitive every time someone asks where the fish are. It was a thing you made a massive deal of and we never saw it again, admit it and own it. It's worse hiding it.
5. GIVING. Show more food bank donations, actually commit and DO them. Look at Dr Alex with his bath bombs where a percentage goes to young minds, amazing. Giveaways. The take take take drives me
bleeping mad.
I am SO sorry this is so long, I had to get it out
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I don't particularly like SS but I feel she's more honest than Hinch (not hard
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) and I'm looking forward to seeing her reno. I'm just so annoyed at how she always misses the mark, never reads the room, doesn't give anything back, unrelatable, the moneygrabbing, the secrecy, the gaslighting, the self-indulgence. I probably wouldn't have liked her still if she did do all of the above things, because she's just not my type of person, but at least I would feel that she's contributing and giving back and using her following in a good way. Sorry guyyyyyyz
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bloody love you all