I mostly agree with you, but perceptions are a funny thing. I once worked for a company who had several branches and one guy at a particular branch had THE sexiest voice on the planet, period. He flirted something rotten with me on the phone and I obviously reciprocated, because he sounded so sexy.Why would anyone be shocked?
You are what you are.Personally I don't think too much about it.
Don't know about anyone else but I really feel I'm coming out of this situation richer for it.
I feel that I've made some life long friends on various forms of media.It's like going back in time to having penfriends.I had a 10 year relationship with a guy who I got to know cos we spoke everyday on the phone,we moved in with each other on the first day we met up In the flesh.My friendship groups have always been diverse,I'd like to think I'm not agist or any other ist.
Of course we wonder about each other,that's natural.who else finds a book so much better than a film? You can imagine the characters exactly how you want to.
Would I feel any different about people I've got to know without sharing photos if they weren't what I was expecting? No,I've judged their characters and personalities and I think that's what we do on here?
How sad that the Hinches will never experience the same,it's all about image and self awareness with them.
Apologies.bet you wish you'd never asked
There's bound to have been typo errors in that -got a chilli seed in my eye-now that's real cooking!
Fast forward a few months to the Christmas "do" and someone said oh, guess who's here and wants to meet you. Obviously it was him and boy was I shocked! He was about 4ft 10in tall (no offence to small people but I do like my men a bit taller than me and he was a foot short) and about the same in girth. I tried all night to avoid him but he kept coming back into view, insisted on a dance (shuddering here folks!) and his eyes were almost level with my boobs. I swear he thought all his Christmases had come at once!I swore from that moment on that I would never EVER pre-judge anyone again without seeing a photograph!
But I will always think of Benidorm when I see @shadyessex33 on here!
And Grinch as Madge, because that's what she'll look like in 20-30 years time, when she's finished farting around with bucket loads of fillers and botox! (Nothing against them but not in massive quantities.)
(Sorry, back into my box now!)
As for Grinch, she brings out the worst in me. Hiding the word AD just shows what a scheming, nasty little cowbag she is. If you were honest and real, Soph, you wouldn't have more threads than a silk worm.
ATV!
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