Don't be too hard on yourself darling, you are doing what she's not - working and taking care of your son. So what if your house isn't perfect or you're carrying a little extra weight, I bet you love your child and vice versa - be grateful you're not her because she's a total prick! Feel free to message if you need to talk to anyone.
While I'm here, I can't believe there's a lit candle on a low coffee table when there's a child who "can stand" and "move around". Soph we may take the piss and criticise you for random stuff but with regards to "our Ronnie's" safety, some cupboard locks aren't child-proofing your home. It's a start but it's too little and too late, you need to sort it because guess what? YOU COULD SAVE YOUR CHILD'S LIFE! One single mint out of that jar and he could die. Falling off the sofa onto that coffee table and he could die. And not one single person on this planet wants something like that to happen. Why are WE your awful "TROLLS" more concerned about your son's safety than you appear to be?
I know someone whose little boy fell tripped and went head first through a glass door (years ago before safety glass was used in internal doors) and he died from one of the shards piercing his heart.
Believe me when I say this but his mother never, ever forgave herself and the poor soul ended up committing suicide many years later. I also know a young girl who just last year left her daughter alone for less than a minute while she popped into the kitchen, the little girl picked up a tea light holder and put it on her head to pretend it was a crown and her hair caught alight. What happened next, well, I won't go into detail but it involved a week long stay in hospital and will require plastic surgery for years to come. She's scarred for life both physically and mentally (as is her mother!) - these things happen in the blink of an eye and nobody pays attention 100% of the time. Especially someone like Sophie who always has her phone in her hand!
Sorry if this upsets anyone but I am SO concerned that something awful is going to happen to that little boy. If you love him as much as you say you do Sophie, then you'll sort it out and pronto, because right now your house is just an accident waiting to happen.