Hiii. New to this thread. Used to like / not mind Anna but have found her increasingly irritating and this whirlwind romance and engagement has tipped it for me. The love bombing, moving in together quickly, getting engaged so fast etc are all big red flags of abusive relationships. Not saying their relationship is abusive BUT normalising such a fast moving relationship (especially with children involved) cannot be a good thing.
Pretty extreme but….If you look at the pattern of events leading up to assaults and worse on women by partners / ex-partners, love bombing, moving in together and getting engaged quickly are all there almost without exception. Society is sceptical / judges such fast changes poorly for good reason because often it is seriously not safe or healthy.