Yeah, I would have either asked hubby to leave or terminated the tenancy on where you live. Drastic measures are needed.Yes put your mil & her weak son out the door & get your locks changed ASAP. Sonny boy will then make sure he doesn’t miss any tradespeople getting his mother’s home ready for her. As for caring for her, leave him to it. Good luck.
I'd sling her and her little sunbeam out on their backsides; Enough is enough!!!I know right. Somebody I work with, his mum fell ill and lost some of her abilities, he took two days off work and the mum is now living independently alone. I feel like I’m being strung along completely but aside from physically throwing her out on the street I feel like I’m trapped in a cycle of ‘next week’
yes, that's shitIve fell out with mine last night, i had my gender scan yesterday and i gave her the sex in the envelope without me knowing to open on the day of the gender reveal party to make the cake to cut into.
shes only just gone and opened it two weeks prior so now she knows and then went and told her daughter (sis in law) .
bloody fuming
Not surprised you’re fuming, bad enough she opened it early let alone then telling your SIL!Ive fell out with mine last night, i had my gender scan yesterday and i gave her the sex in the envelope without me knowing to open on the day of the gender reveal party to make the cake to cut into.
shes only just gone and opened it two weeks prior so now she knows and then went and told her daughter (sis in law) .
bloody fuming
she knows i hate my SIL so its probs why she told herNot surprised you’re fuming, bad enough she opened it early let alone then telling your SIL!
It sounds like we have a similar MIL, or partnerI used to like my sort of MIL until a few months ago. I used to get her a flower subscription for Birthdays and Christmas but I am going to step back for a while.
I was having a bit of a shit time and felt lonely. My partner always seemed to be working and when he wasn't he'd be doing something else. We had a rough time because I wanted to spend time with him going on actual dates or just doing something other than sitting next to him doing my own thing while he plays games. Think arguing and/or a tense atmosphere. His argument was that "we live together, that's the same as spending time together" in my eyes that is not the same, anyone can see that surely? Lots of people have roommates they don't know...
Anyway, he decided to tell me that he spoke to his mum about our situation (very unlike him) and apparently she thinks I'm "extremely clingy" and "living together is the same as spending time together and I need to get over it" and he also told me various other shitty comments I can't remember. Tbh I'm not sure why he told me this. Probably to prove his stupid point?!
But anyway, I bit back at him saying she would say that as she's treated like a cunt by his dad (lots of history there) I then swiftly deleted her number and haven't spoken to her since he told me. Not that she's tried to contact me or anything.
Me and him are fine now but I am trying to avoid anything to do with his mum, such as going to visit etc because "she's his mum, if he spends time with her and I live with him, it's the same as going to see her"
Stupid and petty logic but I cba. I'll stick to my own family and avoid the mamas boy drama
Oh I'm sorry to hear thatIt sounds like we have a similar MIL, or partner
My FIL was lovely though. He passed away a couple of years ago and I really hope he is 'resting in peace' now because he got precious little of it for the fifty something years he was married to her.
Mine's got blinkers on when it comes to his sodding mother.Oh I'm sorry to hear thatI hope he is too.
My bf is alright now, he's actually trying. I was just a bit shocked and hurt (Ngl) when he told me because I always thought she was reasonable and could see both sides of an argument. But nah, women and their sons
That sounds like a case of what you have got to come with this oneIve fell out with mine last night, i had my gender scan yesterday and i gave her the sex in the envelope without me knowing to open on the day of the gender reveal party to make the cake to cut into.
shes only just gone and opened it two weeks prior so now she knows and then went and told her daughter (sis in law) .
bloody fuming
What a scummy thing to do. It was a privilege for her to be given the reveal. Don't do if you decide to have another childshe knows i hate my SIL so its probs why she told her
The difference for me is that when my "father" died three months after my mother all I was consumed with was that he couldn't bear her to be happy so he went to try to join her. On the night he died I had the weirdest experience because I couldn't sleep so I don't know if I was awake or whatever else, BUT I saw my mother exactly how I remembered her before she became ill and she just said "Don't worry about Him ruining my peace - THEY wouldn't let him in!!" I am content now knowing thatIt sounds like we have a similar MIL, or partner
My FIL was lovely though. He passed away a couple of years ago and I really hope he is 'resting in peace' now because he got precious little of it for the fifty something years he was married to her.
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