I'm so sorry, you don't deserve to be treated like this. Do you have anywhere else to go and stay for a bit?I feel like this would be a perfect time to mention that she had a 3 BEDROOM HOUSE and we have a 2 BEDROOM FLAT 10 mins apart but when I mention that if she really needs ‘us’ to help care for her maybe we should all go there but I’m met with the response that it’s her house and she doesn’t want us all there invading. I’m fighting a losing battle My best bet is to completely lose my tit and say she needs to go but of course that makes me look terrible.
Your partner should put you and your son before everyone else. He is also a role model to your son- what is he teaching him about healthy relationships here? That it's fine to kick your OH out of her own bed and force her to sleep on the sofa?
Ask him what his mates think about him sleeping with his mum every night xxx