Aww love! I feel so bad for you! I thought my boyfriend and his Mum were close
Aww love! I feel so bad for you! I thought my boyfriend and his Mum were closeHe’s a dick. Honestly. He keeps saying she’s going home soon but soon never comes. I think this is the perfect set up for him. He has his mum here and me to help look after her, whilst he still has the comfort of our home (and our bed whilst he spoons his fucking mother)
Ohh also he’s not even my husband. 10 years and he’s never even asked meimagine doing all this for somebody who’s not even your Husband
I'm getting Norman Bates type vibes here.....He’s a dick. Honestly. He keeps saying she’s going home soon but soon never comes. I think this is the perfect set up for him. He has his mum here and me to help look after her, whilst he still has the comfort of our home (and our bed whilst he spoons his fucking mother)
Ohh also he’s not even my husband. 10 years and he’s never even asked meimagine doing all this for somebody who’s not even your Husband
Does this mean I’m getting murdered in the showerI'm getting Norman Bates type vibes here.....
Does his mother look like this......Does this mean I’m getting murdered in the shower
Not far off itDoes his mother look like this......
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Sounds like he might want to marry her instead. Is it too late to run?He’s a dick. Honestly. He keeps saying she’s going home soon but soon never comes. I think this is the perfect set up for him. He has his mum here and me to help look after her, whilst he still has the comfort of our home (and our bed whilst he spoons his fucking mother)
Ohh also he’s not even my husband. 10 years and he’s never even asked meimagine doing all this for somebody who’s not even your Husband
It’s never too late. I’m 30 with a 5 year old son. Plenty of time left for me isn’t thereSounds like he might want to marry her instead. Is it too late to run?
Get your running shoes on girl. Forrest Gump style.It’s never too late. I’m 30 with a 5 year old son. Plenty of time left for me isn’t there
Mr peaches needs to go stay with her if she’s only 10 mins away, you should not be on the sofa!Ohhh this could be the thread for me right now. I’ll start off with a disclaimer that my mother in law is very unwell - and it’s not that I don’t care. It’s just tough but somebody feel free to tell me if I’m a total bitch.
Back story, back in 2017 when she was first unwell Mr Peaches asked if she could come and stay for a little while. I said I didn’t want her too but that didn’t matter she was moved in and in my bed and I was in my sons room. Her health improved a lot but a year and a half later she still wasn’t going home (which is 10 mins from us) because she didn’t want to be ‘lonely’ until one day I had absolutely had enough and said it was time for her to go and she did.
Now in 2021 her health has got worse, and Mr Peaches asked if she could stay for a week whilst she was having a weeks worth of treatment. I said as long as it’s only for that week. I can’t go through it again. He promised.
Here we are 3 months later. I’m sleeping on the sofa. Mr Peaches and MIL are sleeping in my bed. She wakes multiple times a night calling out for Mr Peaches to help her to the toilet like he’s not right beside her. She often puts her lunch requests in with me in the morning like I run a cafe. At dinner time she asks for multiple desserts. During the day we have multiple health people coming in and out the house which is very distracting when I have a full time job to do, and the other day she asked me to put the GLUE on her FASLE TEETH which is too far in my opinion.
Time to pack your bags!It’s never too late. I’m 30 with a 5 year old son. Plenty of time left for me isn’t there
I don't mean to cast aspersions on Mr Peaches but it sounds really like he needs to tell his mother to piss off.Ohhh this could be the thread for me right now. I’ll start off with a disclaimer that my mother in law is very unwell - and it’s not that I don’t care. It’s just tough but somebody feel free to tell me if I’m a total bitch.
Back story, back in 2017 when she was first unwell Mr Peaches asked if she could come and stay for a little while. I said I didn’t want her too but that didn’t matter she was moved in and in my bed and I was in my sons room. Her health improved a lot but a year and a half later she still wasn’t going home (which is 10 mins from us) because she didn’t want to be ‘lonely’ until one day I had absolutely had enough and said it was time for her to go and she did.
Now in 2021 her health has got worse, and Mr Peaches asked if she could stay for a week whilst she was having a weeks worth of treatment. I said as long as it’s only for that week. I can’t go through it again. He promised.
Here we are 3 months later. I’m sleeping on the sofa. Mr Peaches and MIL are sleeping in my bed. She wakes multiple times a night calling out for Mr Peaches to help her to the toilet like he’s not right beside her. She often puts her lunch requests in with me in the morning like I run a cafe. At dinner time she asks for multiple desserts. During the day we have multiple health people coming in and out the house which is very distracting when I have a full time job to do, and the other day she asked me to put the GLUE on her FASLE TEETH which is too far in my opinion.
You should set up camp at her house on your ownI feel like this would be a perfect time to mention that she had a 3 BEDROOM HOUSE and we have a 2 BEDROOM FLAT 10 mins apart but when I mention that if she really needs ‘us’ to help care for her maybe we should all go there but I’m met with the response that it’s her house and she doesn’t want us all there invading. I’m fighting a losing battleMy best bet is to completely lose my shit and say she needs to go but of course that makes me look terrible.
I’d be moving myself into her house to get some space. Sorry but that is beyond weird that she’s in your bed!Ahh you all make me feel so much betterat least I know it’s not in my head that it’s fucking WEIRD. The whole situation makes me resent her soooo much which is not how I want to feel towards somebody who is very unwell.
The other day Mr P did mention to her that she’d be going home soon.. and within 5 mins of him saying it she fell over ... all seemed a bit suss if you ask me
Yeah in all seriousness, he might try to make you feel bad for saying it’s not on but he must realise deep down that sleeping in a bed with his mum every night at his age is inappropriate! Regardless of her health. Stand your ground, you’re willing to help but not have her take over your space and bed forever. It’s time for him to step up and arrange a more permanent solution as this has gone on for long enough.So the original plan was, she would stay here for ONE WEEK and then if he felt she still couldn’t be alone he would go to her house with her and pop back to us when he could which suited me fine. We only have the one child and he was just going back to school after the closures so this plan was perfect. It just NEVER happened and when I asked or even mentioned it to his family I was met with the response that it’s best she’s at mine because I have no stairs and an en suite for her to use ...
They’re in bed now. Would it freak you all out if I said he sleeps in his boxers next to her too ..cos it’s true
In the morning I am going to tell him this can not go on and he needs to find a way for her to go home. Either alone, or he can go with her too.
I will need a new mattress when she’s gone. I can’t go back to sleeping on it can I
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