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[calmyourritas]

How are you all doing my lovely’s

Hi mom… Tested positive for covid this week but other than that I’m good how are you?

I have something realllly boring to ask LOL but I really need recommendations for good hot water bottles if possible please I’ve bought from Amazon, boots, Superdrug’s, primark and they’re all soooo bad, pop within like months and I even wait for the kettle to cool a little before I put anything in it. Sorry like I said, boring but getting fed up when I have this constant earache and hot water bottles seem to be my only life saver

I think I got mine as a gift from Debenhams a few years ago and it’s still going strong!!!! Is Debenhams even still a thing? Probs not

 

[eggfriedrice]

Hi mom… Tested positive for covid this week but other than that I’m good how are you?

Girl be careful!!! How is baby girl cooking? Are you okay?
I wish I knew you all in real life

 

[Katleesi]

Bit expensive but I got mine from the white company like 2 years ago and it’s amazing!!! But depends if you wanna pay £20 for a hot water bottle!!
I’ve also got one from b&m but I use that to defrost my car in the mornings (fill it up and wipe it on my windscreen cus im impatient af!!)

I’m okay, had a tit few days. Found out my lil baby had no heartbeat and had to deliver after a medical abortion which was the hardest thing ever, literally I don’t know how I’ve got through since Monday but I’m home now and my boyfriends waiting on me hand and foot but I’m just feeling like such a failure and just in a slump and in such a crappy way!!

Omg lovely, I’m so sorry to hear that I know nothing anyone says right now will make it any better.. but I really hope you’re okay I‘m glad you’ve got your boyfriend there taking care of you. You’re definitely not a failure please don’t feel that way xoxo

 

[MGB01]

I've been a bit crappy this week anxiety wise, got a no caller ID ringing me 3 times and I didn't answer and im panicking about who it was and if they're going to ring back (it sounds stupid but I just always worry it's someone ringing because something bad has happened or i'm in trouble) and getting a new diagnosis, been told I had BPD but now they think it's OCD and its draining me so much I just want treatment tbh. I think the phone call was possibly some ringing about my mental health assessment but no caller ID makes me panic so much

 

[calmyourritas]

I’m okay, had a tit few days. Found out my lil baby had no heartbeat and had to deliver after a medical abortion which was the hardest thing ever, literally I don’t know how I’ve got through since Monday but I’m home now and my boyfriends waiting on me hand and foot but I’m just feeling like such a failure and just in a slump and in such a crappy way!!

Oh my darling I am so so sorry to hear this. I had the same thing happen to me in June (a missed miscarriage found at my 12 week scan) and it was the worst thing I’ve ever had to do. I honestly cried solidly for weeks and I look back and don’t know how I got through it. I know from experience that nothing I say can make it better but just know we are all here for you. There is also a lovely pregnancy loss thread on here which has been there for me in times of need this year 🤍🤍🤍🤍

 

[eggfriedrice]

Omg lovely, I’m so sorry to hear that I know nothing anyone says right now will make it any better.. but I really hope you’re okay I‘m glad you’ve got your boyfriend there taking care of you. You’re definitely not a failure please don’t feel that way xoxo

It’s so hard cus he’s being such an angel but I just feel like I need to rant elsewhere if that makes sense… like sometimes I feel like he doesn’t really get if that makes sense…. Like he’s been so good but I dunno, I moved from Kent and all my “friends” are there and I’ve spoke to 2 of them on the phone but it’s just not the same… I dunno I’m just feeling very like, I can’t even explain it. First a miscarriage, now this… like I dunno, I know I’m rambling but I just genuinely do not know what to say I just need to talk about it but don’t know what to say, if that even makes sense

 

[MGB01]

Bit expensive but I got mine from the white company like 2 years ago and it’s amazing!!! But depends if you wanna pay £20 for a hot water bottle!!
I’ve also got one from b&m but I use that to defrost my car in the mornings (fill it up and wipe it on my windscreen cus im impatient af!!)

I’m okay, had a tit few days. Found out my lil baby had no heartbeat and had to deliver after a medical abortion which was the hardest thing ever, literally I don’t know how I’ve got through since Monday but I’m home now and my boyfriends waiting on me hand and foot but I’m just feeling like such a failure and just in a slump and in such a crappy way!!

I am so so sorry you're going through that and I know theres nothing I can even say to make it better but I'll be thinking and praying for you. I know it goes without saying but please let yourself mourn and be sad and just feel whatever it is you need to feel

 

[eggfriedrice]

I've been a bit crappy this week anxiety wise, got a no caller ID ringing me 3 times and I didn't answer and im panicking about who it was and if they're going to ring back (it sounds stupid but I just always worry it's someone ringing because something bad has happened or i'm in trouble) and getting a new diagnosis, been told I had BPD but now they think it's OCD and its draining me so much I just want treatment tbh. I think the phone call was possibly some ringing about my mental health assessment but no caller ID makes me panic so much

I completely get what you’re saying about no caller ID!!! I feel the same, HATE answering my phone in general, if it’s no caller ID 99% of the time I let it ring! My mindset is if it’s important enough they will leave a voicemail!
hope you’re okay my lovely

 

[calmyourritas]

Girl be careful!!! How is baby girl cooking? Are you okay?
I wish I knew you all in real life

We are all good don’t worry about us
Me too

I've been a bit crappy this week anxiety wise, got a no caller ID ringing me 3 times and I didn't answer and im panicking about who it was and if they're going to ring back (it sounds stupid but I just always worry it's someone ringing because something bad has happened or i'm in trouble) and getting a new diagnosis, been told I had BPD but now they think it's OCD and its draining me so much I just want treatment tbh. I think the phone call was possibly some ringing about my mental health assessment but no caller ID makes me panic so much

I feel you! Hate no caller ID and just answering the phone in general to be honest. Good news on a diagnosis though! Fingers crossed it opens up the right doors for you xxx

 

[eggfriedrice]

Oh my darling I am so so sorry to hear this. I had the same thing happen to me in June (a missed miscarriage found at my 12 week scan) and it was the worst thing I’ve ever had to do. I honestly cried solidly for weeks and I look back and don’t know how I got through it. I know from experience that nothing I say can make it better but just know we are all here for you. There is also a lovely pregnancy loss thread on here which has been there for me in times of need this year 🤍🤍🤍🤍

It’s just awful, especially having to physically deliver the baby. It was so horrible, it really was. Thank you my lovely

 

[MGB01]

bright side for me though I get my uni results back (gone back as a mature student) and somehow managed to get an 88 in an essay so I'm very proud of myself, lowest I've got so far is a 65 and considering I've been out of education for like 5 years I'm so proud of myself

 

[eggfriedrice]

bright side for me though I get my uni results back (gone back as a mature student) and somehow managed to get an 88 in an essay so I'm very proud of myself, lowest I've got so far is a 65 and considering I've been out of education for like 5 years I'm so proud of myself

Well done you!!!!

bright side for me though I get my uni results back (gone back as a mature student) and somehow managed to get an 88 in an essay so I'm very proud of myself, lowest I've got so far is a 65 and considering I've been out of education for like 5 years I'm so proud of myself

I wish I could be so motivated, I tried to do a UNITAS course through my job but I just couldn’t commit to it. Working full time and doing a degree on top plus everything else I just couldn’t apply myself to it. So genuinely so proud of you! X

 

[Katleesi]

It’s so hard cus he’s being such an angel but I just feel like I need to rant elsewhere if that makes sense… like sometimes I feel like he doesn’t really get if that makes sense…. Like he’s been so good but I dunno, I moved from Kent and all my “friends” are there and I’ve spoke to 2 of them on the phone but it’s just not the same… I dunno I’m just feeling very like, I can’t even explain it. First a miscarriage, now this… like I dunno, I know I’m rambling but I just genuinely do not know what to say I just need to talk about it but don’t know what to say, if that even makes sense

Bless you! It’s probably quite hard because you’ve moved so you’re feeling a bit isolated as well. Don’t worry about rambling, ramble away! The grieving process is always a hard thing to go through, everyone grieves differently.

It’s not really the same (honestly, I can’t imagine what you’re going through), but I lost my dad a few years back and even now it still effects me; but I promise you in time it will get easier. It’s just very fresh for you right now and you need to go through the process and soon you’ll start to feel a bit better each day feel free to ramble away on here, we’re all here for you xo

bright side for me though I get my uni results back (gone back as a mature student) and somehow managed to get an 88 in an essay so I'm very proud of myself, lowest I've got so far is a 65 and considering I've been out of education for like 5 years I'm so proud of myself

That’s amazing! Congrats! Kicking ass girl

 

[Honeh]

Bit expensive but I got mine from the white company like 2 years ago and it’s amazing!!! But depends if you wanna pay £20 for a hot water bottle!!
I’ve also got one from b&m but I use that to defrost my car in the mornings (fill it up and wipe it on my windscreen cus im impatient af!!)

I’m okay, had a tit few days. Found out my lil baby had no heartbeat and had to deliver after a medical abortion which was the hardest thing ever, literally I don’t know how I’ve got through since Monday but I’m home now and my boyfriends waiting on me hand and foot but I’m just feeling like such a failure and just in a slump and in such a crappy way!!

Thank you!! I’m gonna invest in both a B&M and the one you said too!! Thank you ladehs

 

[calmyourritas]

It’s just awful, especially having to physically deliver the baby. It was so horrible, it really was. Thank you my lovely

I’m so sorry this happened to you and I really wish there was something I could do to take the pain away

This is the thread if you ever wish to chat more on there too. There are some lovely ladies on there

Miscarriage/Baby Loss

Hi all, I have been on the TTC thread for a few months and have recently had an early loss. I have discussed my experience on the TTC thread but I’m conscious that I don’t feel it’s the right place to process my grief amongst others good news and 2WWs, and I don’t know if I’m ready to try again...

tattle.life

 

[lozzapaloozza]

I have something realllly boring to ask LOL but I really need recommendations for good hot water bottles if possible please I’ve bought from Amazon, boots, Superdrug’s, primark and they’re all soooo bad, pop within like months and I even wait for the kettle to cool a little before I put anything in it. Sorry like I said, boring but getting fed up when I have this constant earache and hot water bottles seem to be my only life saver

I have no recommendations but so happy you found the thread mom

 

[calmyourritas]

bright side for me though I get my uni results back (gone back as a mature student) and somehow managed to get an 88 in an essay so I'm very proud of myself, lowest I've got so far is a 65 and considering I've been out of education for like 5 years I'm so proud of myself

That’s amazing! Well done

 

[lozzapaloozza]

Bit expensive but I got mine from the white company like 2 years ago and it’s amazing!!! But depends if you wanna pay £20 for a hot water bottle!!
I’ve also got one from b&m but I use that to defrost my car in the mornings (fill it up and wipe it on my windscreen cus im impatient af!!)

I’m okay, had a tit few days. Found out my lil baby had no heartbeat and had to deliver after a medical abortion which was the hardest thing ever, literally I don’t know how I’ve got through since Monday but I’m home now and my boyfriends waiting on me hand and foot but I’m just feeling like such a failure and just in a slump and in such a crappy way!!

I’m so sorry I know nothing I can say or do will help make you feel any better but I’m here for you if you ever need me (even if you want to send me a million voice notes again ) I love you a lot. You’re incredible and strong

I've been a bit crappy this week anxiety wise, got a no caller ID ringing me 3 times and I didn't answer and im panicking about who it was and if they're going to ring back (it sounds stupid but I just always worry it's someone ringing because something bad has happened or i'm in trouble) and getting a new diagnosis, been told I had BPD but now they think it's OCD and its draining me so much I just want treatment tbh. I think the phone call was possibly some ringing about my mental health assessment but no caller ID makes me panic so much

I won’t even answer the phone if I know the person so I understand how you feel! I hope you manage to get everything sorted. Have you checked your voicemails? If it was important they would have left you one

 

[Poppydaisy]

Hey girlssss I am loling at the thread title, bit of a random one but where has Kindred gone to

 

[calmyourritas]

Hey girlssss I am loling at the thread title, bit of a random one but where has Kindred gone to

I know I was thinking about her earlier, I hope she’s okay