Nothing pisses me off more than that interfering in her brother and sister in laws baby business. We had all that before, told her, she got all shirty about it, threw some toys out the pram, and here she is again.. awful.
It is NOT your baby mik, it’s not even just your brothers! If you have any decency, ask the baby’s mum - yes your sister in law - first. And don’t frame it manipulatively so she feels pressured or bullied, just suggest, lightly, your opinions, and LEAVE IT up to them how they want to raise their child in their family.
Her behaviour to me surrounding this new niece, and her sense of entitlement to take over and impose on her brother and sister in law screams to me that she was the spolit child at home and no one dare tells her no. And the real victim here is the sister in law.
I know from experience here - I had to stand up to my in law bullies and put my foot down from interfering - not easy, but remember her sister in law in now married and living overseas within close proximity to her husbands family. I feel for her…
And using a baby for engagement and views?! Mad cow..
Putting someone else's baby in for thombnail of her video as well. Wow. Even of her brother is genuinely OK with that can you imagine asking 'please can I use your baby in the thumbnail for my new video about absolutely nothing?'. Also talking about how she thinks her niece needs a walker when they're now discouraged because they're dangerous. Hopefully she realises this herself before findng one and doesn't kick off when someone inevitably mentions it in the comments.