Mia Jeal #9 Wasting money on tattoos and filler. Guess what Mabel, it’s puffs for dinner!

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Even if she did change her nappy first thing, her baby grow was clearly still soaked front and back when she changed her on the bed - so she put her back into piss soaked clothes.
It doesn’t take a minute to put on fresh clothes
 
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She’s being so childish with all these Snapchat posts, acting like a sulky teenager
 
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Coming from someone with mental health issues, I really see Mia as a very unhappy teenager and falling apart. I think she has depression. She lives in the middle of nowhere, she spends all her time locked upstairs and is cut off from peers and family and seemingly has unresolved issues from her childhood. I genuinely think she's breaking and crumbling slowly and really struggling with Mabel. And in turn, Mabel is picking up on it and baring the brunt of it and is exhausted.
 
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not mia trying to play victim to get sympathy and condolences from everyone...
she’s sulking because she got caught red handed neglecting her child.

”i DO NOT neglect my child” mia, we have just seen with our eyes you leaving her in a soaking wet nappy and clothes whilst you do your makeup and film an ad. we have just blatantly seen you neglect your child.

she doesn’t think the water tray was a good idea because she only lets mabel get soaked in her own urine from neglect and not water from playing !

i think we can all agree that this is the worst thing she has done so far... and i’m concerned that this won’t even be the worst she does.
 
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not mia trying to play victim to get sympathy and condolences from everyone...
she’s sulking because she got caught red handed neglecting her child.

”i DO NOT neglect my child” mia, we have just seen with our eyes you leaving her in a soaking wet nappy and clothes whilst you do your makeup and film an ad. we have just blatantly seen you neglect your child.

she doesn’t think the water tray was a good idea because she only lets mabel get soaked in her own urine from neglect and not water from playing !

i think we can all agree that this is the worst thing she has done so far... and i’m concerned that this won’t even be the worst she does.
I think what's super concerning is she felt that acceptable to be in the internet what is she like when shes not filming
 
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You SHOULD be sad. I would be heartbroken if I posted my life online and everyone told me I was neglecting my child, because I would be soo ashamed of myself. I would take a social media break and dedicate my time to doing better and getting help. Then I would make a video taking accountability and apologise to my child. But no, Mia’s sad because she’s been called out and the constant deleting of comments isn’t working and people aren’t seeing through her lies. The only person in that picture who will be truly sad is Mabel. That’s literally the FIRST time I’ve seen them “cuddle” 🙄 p.s ITS NOT ABOUT YOU. That’s the problem here.
 
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imagine when mabel is older and sees video footage of the dirty unhygienic neglectful parenting she went through...
 
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How disgusting, leaves her child soaked through to eat a compeltly un nutritious breakfast then being picked up like a rag doll to chew on a shoe, and now being used for sympathy for her "sad mum" cause everybody has seen what you are doing to your own baby! Honestly after everything people have said and shes still making it all about her self
 
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I don’t know why it’s so hard for mia to not even see her problems. My daughter went through a stage of only wanting to go to her nan (my mum) and she used to fling herself back when I picked her up, she’d scream and cry to go back to my mum so I done everything I could to calm her down and distract her, everyday. She then went through a stage of standing up in her cot and wanting to play till 12 o’clock every night so her dad and I left the room and stood outside at her bedtime and waited for her to fall asleep every night (if she cried we’d then go and see to her). Now my daughter is going through a fussy eating stage where she only likes certain textures which is why I strictly don’t offer her sweet things like puffs and wafers instead of meals!! If she eats her meals she can then eat some fruit after.

If my daughters nappy was leaking every night to the point she was soaked and so were her cot covers I know I’d need to change nappies. If my daughter was standing in her cot crying I’d go and see to her. If I was sitting at my desk and my daughter came up to me I’d talk to her and interact with her! If my daughter was being “difficult” I’d take her to the park to let some energy out or go for a walk as it’d help us both! There’s such simple answers to her problems, it’s not like Mabel is a hard and fussy child. Mabel is a dream, Mia honestly doesn’t realise how lucky she is. I feel for Mabel so much :(
 
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This absolute crap about ''not having enough time in the morning'' is a ridiculous excuse she ALWAYS finds time to shower do her hair and makeup but Mabel can't have her basic needs met. throw your hair in a bun, take mabel to nursery a little later rather than chucking her away at the first opportunity you get. Definelty heard her mention that she had 2 hours till she had online classes but mabel was long gone
 
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I have been waiting for something like this to happen for so long, for her to show something slightly more obvious that allowed everyone to see it. I’ve watched Mia from the beginning, and saw red flags from when Mabel was around 8 weeks old. She posted a picture of Mabel in a jumperoo, it was one the hardest pictures to look at. She was a tiny baby wedged in, her head barely reached over the seat and her legs certainly didn’t touch the floor. I even posted about it on a mum app because I was alarmed and everyone agreed that she was far too young. I reeeeally wish I took a ss but I was so worried she’d see it and block me. I commented about it because I thought it was innocent and she was just naive, but I got blocked. And slowly things got worse and worse, but she did a lot of things hard to notice unless you’re a mum too. Like admitting she hadn’t fed for over 4 hours because the “routine was off”, keeping her in the jumperoo literallly ALL day, she posted on snap & insta even more back then so it was so obvious that she was in it all day, not using boiling water and being lazy with sterilising. It was also scary just how much she was doing throughout the day, always having her hair done, full face of makeup, watching 8 shows, bullet journalling and constantly leaving Mabel in the jumperoo alone. It was obvious she wasn’t bonding with Mabel. There’s so many more little things if you read through all the threads. But it seems like things just get worse as Mabel requires more effort. Weaning was a whole ass mess and now she’s barely bothering to feed her at all. The stimulation and lack of outdoors/leaving the room has somehow got even worse (aside from nursery) and the way she talks to and about Mabel and treats her in general has just gotten horrific. Not to mention her constantly saying she’s ill because she’s unhappy or she can’t be arsed to think of a real solution. I know I’ve repeated a lot that we’ve spoken about over the last 9 threads (I promise there’s so much more if you’re new lmao) but I feel like Mia thinks she’s made one mistake and is being called out for it, when in fact shes been doing these things for a long time but just slipped up this time and hasn’t hidden it as well.
 
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I’ll be pissed if Mia uses her traumatic past as an excuse & to look like a victim. My dad was abusive. I had police escort due to how bad he got. I even had a restraining order from the age 9 to 18. But I don’t yank my daughter around by her wrists or leave her soaked in Piss. Nor do I prioritise myself. If anything that feeling of not thinking you’re good enough or loved by the neglectful/abusive parent should be enough motivation for her to go OTT with Mabel just so she never feels that way. I’m always with my daughter & I do everything so she knows she’s loved.
On top of all this, my autistic partner who struggles with emotions and being empathetic (most things are black or white with him; no in between but he’s learning for our daughter) sees what Mia is doing wrong. I mean the other day at 4am he asked me to wake our baby so he can strip the cot because she had leaked and he feels bad about waking her.
So I really hope Mia doesn’t pull any pathetic bullshit excuse to look innocent. She’s selfish & neglects her daughter. She’s only crying and posting Mabel now bc she’s scared of the conveniences of being caught
 
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So she has a water tray in her bedroom for Mabel to play with and she’s captioned it on Snapchat something along the lines of “this wasn’t a good idea”
It was a lovely idea... if you hadn’t decided to take it up to your room onto a small carpeted corner...
she has wood/tiled floors downstairs she could have easily stuck a towel or two down around the tray and let Mabel enjoy playing more. Because it’s in her room I bet that every time Mabel makes a splash (which is the whole point) Mia will tell her off and tell her to stop.
The past 9 threads have just taught me that Mia doesn’t have the brains, maturity, attitude or nurturing skills to be a mother 🤷🏼‍♀️ She should have stayed in school rather than try to carve out a career as a failing teen mum
 
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mia lives her life normally and tries to fit mabel into that. she doesn’t do the opposite and try and adjust her life to mabels needs. she could wake up earlier with mabel and sit her downstairs in her high chair and give her breakfast but she gives mabel a dream feed which means they can both get up later and mia will focus on getting herself ready whilst mabel is feeding herself in the background.

she can’t ever accept that she is wrong. when mia failed her driving test the first time, she was ‘no where near’ then the second time - surprise surprise it was the instructors fault once again.
 
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lets just hope none of Mia’s future potential bosses google her... no ones gonna hire a midwife who cant even be bothered to change her own childs nappy
 
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