I have been waiting for something like this to happen for so long, for her to show something slightly more obvious that allowed everyone to see it. I’ve watched Mia from the beginning, and saw red flags from when Mabel was around 8 weeks old. She posted a picture of Mabel in a jumperoo, it was one the hardest pictures to look at. She was a tiny baby wedged in, her head barely reached over the seat and her legs certainly didn’t touch the floor. I even posted about it on a mum app because I was alarmed and everyone agreed that she was far too young. I reeeeally wish I took a ss but I was so worried she’d see it and block me. I commented about it because I thought it was innocent and she was just naive, but I got blocked. And slowly things got worse and worse, but she did a lot of things hard to notice unless you’re a mum too. Like admitting she hadn’t fed for over 4 hours because the “routine was off”, keeping her in the jumperoo literallly ALL day, she posted on snap & insta even more back then so it was so obvious that she was in it all day, not using boiling water and being lazy with sterilising. It was also scary just how much she was doing throughout the day, always having her hair done, full face of makeup, watching 8 shows, bullet journalling and constantly leaving Mabel in the jumperoo alone. It was obvious she wasn’t bonding with Mabel. There’s so many more little things if you read through all the threads. But it seems like things just get worse as Mabel requires more effort. Weaning was a whole ass mess and now she’s barely bothering to feed her at all. The stimulation and lack of outdoors/leaving the room has somehow got even worse (aside from nursery) and the way she talks to and about Mabel and treats her in general has just gotten horrific. Not to mention her constantly saying she’s ill because she’s unhappy or she can’t be arsed to think of a real solution. I know I’ve repeated a lot that we’ve spoken about over the last 9 threads (I promise there’s so much more if you’re new lmao) but I feel like Mia thinks she’s made one mistake and is being called out for it, when in fact shes been doing these things for a long time but just slipped up this time and hasn’t hidden it as well.