I was one to give her the benefit of the doubtLove that people were defending her on here saying that she isn’t neglectful, only to then post a vlog of her not bothering to feed Mabel for her lip filler appointmentI don’t even think I can defend her at this point, I would without a doubt describe it as neglect, especially emotionally. I understand it isn’t a severe case, but constantly putting down your child, talking to them like you dislike them, ignoring them when they cry and just getting annoyed because they are upset, barely washing them, not washing nappies correctly (which will cause ammonia burns), not making any effort to feed your child anything besides snacks, spending more time watching your tv while leaving your child on the floor, putting your child in a jumperoo for 95% of the day, using unsterile water for formula out of laziness, only taking your child on a day out for their first birthday and then spending the rest of the time stuck in a room with a small rug for a play area is borderline neglect. Not a dangerous level obviously, but it’s not exactly good care and attention is it. I understand she goes to nursery but that doesn’t mean Mia doesn’t neglect her needs when she’s at home... I want to think Mia can be that mum she was at the start, but I’m sorry, right now she really isn’t doing her job and isn’t doing what’s best for Mabel at all..
*especially considering she’s been informed and warned about all of things and the potential risks but she doesn’t care at all. If she was just naive it would be different but she chooses to be like this.
I completely agree with you there. I genuinely think Mia would really benefit from a professional checking up on her and giving her advice on how to solve these problems so that both she and Mabel are happierImo if a mother is lazy and that affects their ability to feed and bathe their child, that’s neglectful. Like everything in life there’s a spectrum of neglect... Does she deserve to have Mabel taken away? Absolutely not. But does she deserve to have a stern talking to by a paediatrician? Yes, and it couldn’t come soon enough.
This is it summed up to a TImo if a mother is lazy and that affects their ability to feed and bathe their child, that’s neglectful. Like everything in life there’s a spectrum of neglect... Does she deserve to have Mabel taken away? Absolutely not. But does she deserve to have a stern talking to by a paediatrician? Yes, and it couldn’t come soon enough.
yeah they get super dry and mine started peeling around 3 days after no matter how much lip balm I applied. make sure you do plenty of research about it especially where you get them done and by who, research the different kinds of fillers because theres many types some last longer than others as well. obviously mia just jumps on the trends and doesn't bother to do her research I doubt she knows much about them. the first time hurts more than other times no matter how long the numbing cream is on it starts to numb very quickly but in all honesty it doesn't feel like you have any numbing cream on. it is very painful but worth it imo. I recommend arnica cream it makes bruises go away faster even if you won't bruise it helps to prevent themIs it normal for your lips to be that dry and cracked after lip filler I want mine done and I’ve research a lot and still am but I’ve never come across any that are that dry or cracked. She didn’t really give a glowing review of the place by saying she was late, and she doesn’t know if she left the numbing cream on long enough, if I haven’t done my own research and went off her review she’d totally put me off as towards the end she seemed negative about it all. She clearly didn’t look into it as didn’t realise how many times they inject you and doesn’t explain what filler she when for and why. It seemed like she had it done for a video but then didn’t even take the vlog along with her.
My sister is 18 nearly 19 months old, she wakes up at least once for a feed. She’s not slept through the night since she was 3 months old and even then it was onceI’m so lost.. Why does she still give Mabel a dream feed now she’s over 1? Does she actually need the feed? Why doesn’t Mia try not giving it one night and see if Mabel even notices. It just seems so strange.. more like a habit of Mias than something Mabel needsalso I have a 1 year old and my son hasn’t taken a dream feed since he was a few months old.. I would say the majority (Granted not all) of my friends who also have babies have them sleeping through the night at this age. I can’t say I know any 18 month-2 year old who still wakes in the night for a feed. Just my experience
im down south where the virus isnt ‘as’ bad and when ive come back from working with kids (even though i cannot go anywhere near them) i was my hands as soon as i enter my house, i shove all my clothes in a hot wash immediately and i have a shower so why Mabel wouldn’t be given a bath at least after probably touching all the other kids and the workers baffles memia not giving mabel a bath every single day might not be a giant problem normally but with the virus she really should be giving her one everyday (especially the days she’s at nursery)
Yeah where I live it's given to parents on a list on things to do at the moment, schools and nursery say to bath your child as soon as your home and wash there clothes that's what weve been told to doim down south where the virus isnt ‘as’ bad and when ive come back from working with kids (even though i cannot go anywhere near them) i was my hands as soon as i enter my house, i shove all my clothes in a hot wash immediately and i have a shower so why Mabel wouldn’t be given a bath at least after probably touching all the other kids and the workers baffles me
This!! This is my pointImo if a mother is lazy and that affects their ability to feed and bathe their child, that’s neglectful. Like everything in life there’s a spectrum of neglect... Does she deserve to have Mabel taken away? Absolutely not. But does she deserve to have a stern talking to by a paediatrician? Yes, and it couldn’t come soon enough.
My son has never slept through the night either, many babies/toddlers don’t, but it’s the fact that Mia MAKES Mabel wake up that I don’t understand!My sister is 18 nearly 19 months old, she wakes up at least once for a feed. She’s not slept through the night since she was 3 months old and even then it was once
I feel like neglect is such a strong word but I’ve looked on the nspcc website and things that mia doesn’t give Mabel like a good meal and stimulation she gets from nursery, we can also see that mias mum does take care of Mabel when she gets given the chance... she doesn’t just get left on her own like she does with Mia. If Mabel was left alone in mias care I’d be very concerned for her, she wouldn’t be getting the basic care she needs. I guess you could say nursery is somewhat saving her. I think Mabel would be better spending more time in nursery than in mias care, which isn’t normal for a mother. I definitely think mia should have waited to have children to have time to mature as a person... she wants more but she can’t even look after the first oneThis!! This is my pointCan’t fathom how people are saying “Mia isn’t neglecting Mabel... oh but she is lazy and selfish and doesn’t feed, wash or pay any attention to her child” like, sorry, how is that not neglect? I completely agree it’s not a severe or dangerous case, otherwise we wouldn’t just be talking about it on a forum! But mild cases still exist and are still damaging. Especially considering it’s not just Mabels mental well-being at risk, but her health too.
My son has never slept through the night either, many babies/toddlers don’t, but it’s the fact that Mia MAKES Mabel wake up that I don’t understand!
I know she denied she was forward facing then I nicely said something like it's alright you made a mistake your only human but she was definitely forward facing I'm not trying to attack you I just want you and others to be educated on the importance on rear facingThe comment about the carseat on mias picture on Instagram has been deleted
I dont understand how she can say shes rear facing when you can clearly see in a vlog shes notI know she denied she was forward facing then I nicely said something like it's alright you made a mistake your only human but she was definitely forward facing I'm not trying to attack you I just want you and others to be educated on the importance on rear facing
Then she deleted
I think it’s just bc she hasn’t been ‘vlogging’ for a while because all of her last few videos were about her and Mabel’s birthdays so we haven’t had any of her crappy vlogs for a while. Not that the other videos were any better.Not watched the new vlog yet but the title includes the phrase 'back to normal' hope she doesn't mean in terms of covid restrictions cos the whole of England is gradually being placed back into lockdown
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