Ok, this has been bothering me for ages. Can we please stop saying her birth wasnât traumatic, that it wasnât that bad, other people have it worse, at least her baby is healthy etc. None of that is for anyone here to say or decide. Traumatic births are still a stigma and talking about it is important.
yes she changes her story and makes stuff up which is annoying and she definitely exaggerates some details but clearly she found her birth traumatic and sheâs allowed to say that. Shes a young teen whoâs first experience of birth didnât go to plan. Her birth couldâve triggered anxiety or PND, unless you are her, you donât know what effect itâs had on her. It can even cause PTSD in some woman. So yeah, Mabel is healthy, theyâre both physically ok but just stop with the phrases above.