SAME. I think she’s just so desperate to be traumatised she just try’s to convince herself & everyone else that she’s had a traumatic upbringing. Anyone who truly had a terrible upbringing (like myself) doesn’t constantly use it to seem quirky. Sounds more like she has doormat parents who let her do whatever the f she wants. She used to get £50 a week from her mum fgs
she just hates men because she hasn’t found one that’ll be everything & do everything she wants. She’s 18 talking about having 13 kids by 25, no 18 year old boy wants that, that’s the only reason she’s angry imo. She reminds me of those boys who get hurt once at 16 then spend the next 20 years treating women like rubbish as revenge (if you’re older and have dated around you know exactly what I’m talking about
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I 100% agree, I don't intend to write off the possibility of her claims and I wouldn't want to shut that down, because I don't know her or her life well enough, but given the picture of her personality that we DO have, based upon all of her actions and behaviour over this extended period of time, and her past videos of when she was younger, it really doesn't do her claims any justice whatsoever.
She just throws a tantrum whenever she doesn't get her own way, thinks the entire world is against her, thinks her life is so much worse than everyone else's, that she is so hard done by, and thinks anyone who disagrees with her is a bully.
Maybe i am wrong but it doesn't make for a very convincing claim.
~ "Why couldn't this happen to someone else, what did I do to deserve this, why did this have to happen to ME" when her cat passed away.
~ Throwing her toys out of the pram when she failed both driving tests, saying that her driving teacher was WRONG and was picking on her.
~ Her old twitter post as a tween saying how terrible and hard done by her life was and that she deserved recognition or something from Zoella and Alfie because of it.
~ Telling us she gets angry and argues with her mother every time her mother gives her the slightest bit of constructive criticism to the point where her mother is scared to do so I think she said.
~ Blaming all the health professionals, midwives and doctors etc that they are wrong, that she knows better than them and is better than them fullstop.
~ How she has treated her parents overall, stepping all over them, and how she has spoken about her father in past videos of when she was younger, throwing a tantrum and swearing when she just didn't get her own way with him.
~ Constantly trying to maintain a victim complex on tiktok of a persecuted victim teen single mum when no one other than her is creating this stereotype.
~ Constantly complaining about how hard her life is in a highly passive aggressive way in maybe 80% of her Youtube videos.
~ Deleting every single comment on her youtube videos that either: Disagree with her, criticise her, offer constructive feedback or improvements, point out inconsistencies with her stories, even deleting the most kindly-worded comments telling her differently.
I'm sure I have missed out hundreds of examples, but all that this behaviour really suggests to me is she just doesn't like anyone telling her she can't have her own way, because of a highly privileged upbringing where her parents never prepared her for the fact that you don't always get your own way in life, therefore she is completely unable to deal with it.