She's just checking things off the list despite bringing an actual human being into the world.It’s sad really she’s not savouring him like she should View attachment 286690
I probably put more effort into my half-assed Sims families.
She's just checking things off the list despite bringing an actual human being into the world.It’s sad really she’s not savouring him like she should View attachment 286690
to be fair I’ve had those conversations - but with people I know who also have kids. I have the one and that’s it’s, I don’t want anyone. My friend wants all her kids by 30 and nothing passed that because the night feeds kill her. My best friend doesn’t want biological kids at all and is waiting the next 3 years until she’s 30 and looked into getting her womb removed.It’s sad really she’s not savouring him like she should View attachment 286690
You can have goalposts of where your life would like to be (I know I do) but I get the feeling she only sees the kids she creates as babies or children, rather than understanding that they are unique and independent people who exist irrespective to her aestheticized ideals of what a family looks like.to be fair I’ve had those conversations - but with people I know who also have kids. I have the one and that’s it’s, I don’t want anyone. My friend wants all her kids by 30 and nothing passed that because the night feeds kill her. My best friend doesn’t want biological kids at all and is waiting the next 3 years until she’s 30 and looked into getting her womb removed.
The only difference is that it’s people that know both me and my son extremely well and not strangers on the internet who I feel I can’t even tell his name to in case they stalk us.
Cramming as many babies in as she can without a thought for any of them ,they'll be an inconvenience once she has to run around after them she's lucky Thomas is at her beck and call now ,,but just wait till he goes out to work again she'll really struggle then .She's just checking things off the list despite bringing an actual human being into the world.
I probably put more effort into my half-assed Sims families.
I totally understand what you mean. I just feel like she doesn’t really know tYou can have goalposts of where your life would like to be (I know I do) but I get the feeling she only sees the kids she creates as babies or children, rather than understanding that they are unique and independent people who exist irrespective to her aestheticized ideals of what a family looks like.
I totally understand what you’re saying but I think she only is looking at the “family goals” aspect of it, because she hasn’t a clue of the hard work that goes into raising a human. It’s not the sleepless nights that are the bugger, it’s childcare while you work/ finding a work-life balance and fitting your life around their routine I’ve found the most difficult, especially now since me and his dad have split up. But I have mother friends to bounce things off. I really don’t think she has.You can have goalposts of where your life would like to be (I know I do) but I get the feeling she only sees the kids she creates as babies or children, rather than understanding that they are unique and independent people who exist irrespective to her aestheticized ideals of what a family looks like.
While I get what you mean by having other mothers to bounce off not everyone has that and they still don't seem to act like she does with the baby. I still don't think she's completely at peace with being his mother yet ..if that makes sense .to be fair I’ve had those conversations - but with people I know who also have kids. I have the one and that’s it’s, I don’t want anyone. My friend wants all her kids by 30 and nothing passed that because the night feeds kill her. My best friend doesn’t want biological kids at all and is waiting the next 3 years until she’s 30 and looked into getting her womb removed.
The only difference is that it’s people that know both me and my son extremely well and not strangers on the internet who I feel I can’t even tell his name to in case they stalk us.
Yeah I think it's the ideal of having a child she wants not the reality.I totally understand what you mean. I just feel like she doesn’t really know t
I totally understand what you’re saying but I think she only is looking at the “family goals” aspect of it, because she hasn’t a clue of the hard work that goes into raising a human. It’s not the sleepless nights that are the bugger, it’s childcare while you work/ finding a work-life balance and fitting your life around their routine I’ve found the most difficult, especially now since me and his dad have split up. But I have mother friends to bounce things off. I really don’t think she has.
I can only speak for myself but I loved having the baby more than the pregnancy...the baby was always the end goal..not the other way around ...Must be the attention she’s missingI totally understand what you’re saying but I think she only is looking at the “family goals” aspect of it, because she hasn’t a clue of the hard work that goes into raising a human. It’s not the sleepless nights that are the bugger, it’s childcare while you work/ finding a work-life balance and fitting your life around their routine I’ve found the most difficult, especially now since me and his dad have split up. But I have mother friends to bounce things off. I really don’t think she has.
Yep! I agree with you. I think she's trapped in the cycle of what's going to make her Instagram feed the best looking (hence all the blue-eyed boy bullshit). She doesn't realise that it's going to be very hard to raise someone into a person, not just when they're a cute baby.
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Why do you guys call him Milo?She is a weapon.
Doesn’t seem to be busy with the baby if she has so much time to be up for that kind of crap.
we should pray for baby Milo to grow up okish with the mother like that.
one of her fake accounts was called Milo!Why do you guys call him Milo?
Dearreader you're our very own PoirotA story told in three parts
The beginning,
The unravelling,
The end.
if she’s a sock puppet Im mortified for Melanie and her viewers as that’s how she’d clearly like her fans to speak to her. But IMAGINE she’s a real person?! Imagine being that investedA story told in three parts
The beginning,
The unravelling,
The end.
I'm just tempted to scan through Facebook or the like for "Emma Duffy"s, just to see if there are any who fit the billif she’s a sock puppet Im mortified for Melanie and her viewers as that’s how she’d clearly like her fans to speak to her. But IMAGINE she’s a real person?! Imagine being that invested
Dearreader you're our very own Poirot