So nothing's changed with Mel then?
So I done some digging. And came across this video that matches up with her timeline of her toxic ex. She says they dated from when she was 16 up until age 18/19?
Interesting video to say the least.... Particularly around the 12 minute mark.
* couldn't upload the video for some reason. Added a SS of title for those who might want to watch it.
Just went back and watched the video, I vaugely recall watching this back then, as I was still subbed to her in those days, and remember her pushing sarahs youtube channel and I did watch a few of her her videos. She did do that sit down with that said ex she speaks of years later, and it was interesting. they genuinely appear friends (sarah and the ex). What I found weird is that melanie says theyve been friends since they were kids, yet sarah doesn't appear to know of the fella, or any of their relationship in that time period. Her choice of words there from 12min on regarding said ex are interesting to say the least.
Am I wrong in assuming the fella she named in this is the same fella in the latest video? If that is the case, it's even worse that there's video evidence of his name a previous upload.
I did some sleuthing a while back, and it turns out sarah is actually childhood friends with thomas, not melanie.
Also off topic slightly but totally sums mel up "they would give me advice and i wouldn't listen". I wonder how many people today have given her advice re anything and she has scoffed at them?! Whatever happened to those friends you had as a teen. Most of us have some if not just 1 friend from our teen years. How come it's only youtubers and thomas' friends she associates with now? It just makes me wonder.
Sorry for the double post
Even better she could just add âTW: SAâ to the end of the videos title, job done. She just doesnât care at all.
is this toxic ex not Shane then? I donât know why I was imagining him the whole time. What blows my mind most is that in Melanie world once SA trauma has been âprocessedâ everythingâs hunky dory and itâs a free for all to talk about it as widely and as much as you want apparently, even when it hasnât happened to you.
Editing a youtube video and reuploading isn't that hard though. She's just making a mountain out of molehill. I do agree it's far easier to edit end credits than it is to edit a verbal piece in, but let's be real she was never considering it!!
No apparently not if her years of being together adds up, the ex (she mentions in the video
@Dear Reader shared) is of another name. She says his name, I don't wish to repeat it as I feel it violates tos here. I always got the impression from her uploads of shane is that he's a shy individual who didn't want to be put on stage, but did it because he cared. she started youtube when she was i think 23 and she was with shane then.
That whole ideology of 'everythings rosy in the garden now' because years have passed, has always alwaysssss frustrated me. for people who've never experienced any kind of damaging trauma to be like 'ah well sure its grand now'. if she had experienced anything similar (and i dont wish it upon her or anyone for that matter) she wouldn't be acting like it's grand because her friend gave her the "go-ahead".