Mel @mjbyrnex

[MadGal]

Her views are low because she’s boring as duck! I’m sorry but who really wants to listen to the same thing over and over and over again! Yes, people like to be nosey and we all like to hear what someone has been through but how long does it last before people move onto the next thing once they become bored of hearing someone sat in their car talking about themselves!

She’s not likeable or relatable because she’s just very self centred and it’s all me me me which is fine as it’s her page she can just harp on about herself but when your engagement becomes low you can’t moan about it when tik tok is full to the brim of people all trying to make it big 🥱🥱

 

[notSUBmissive]

How long was she on her live for?!

I caught a few minutes where she said she watches another tiktoker who talks about trauma. But we are told as soon as she stops filming her tiktoks her trauma isn't in her head and she just lives her normal life???

Is it in her head when she relaxes by watching other people's trauma tiktoks instead of relaxing things?
Is it in her head when she's sat planning what aspect of her trauma to film?
Is it in her head when she's constantly bothering the police about it?
Is it in her head when she's ringing and emailing various people to find out about her childhood?
Is it in her head when she's supposed to be working but she's filming and recording things about her trauma all day?
Is it in her head when she chooses not to socialise with colleagues at work at lunch but instead goes to her car to talk about trauma for an hour everytime she's in the office?
Is it in her head when she's doing lengthy lives talking about her trauma?

Mel is consumed by her past, it dominates her whole being, the only person who cannot see that is Mel who LOVES talking about herself! Obsessed is an understatement.

I was once unwell when having my trauma therapy and I called my psychologist and asked if she would come to my home as I was too unwell to goto her, her reply was a flat no, she said talking about my trauma therapy was really a bad idea to bring into my home unless absolutely necessary as my home is my safe space.

Same with my police video evidence which I had to watch before the trial, I asked if the detective would come to me and she said a flat out no, she said its against our policy to bring such trauma into your home because your home is your sanctuary.

Mels home, Mels marriage, Mels life. Mels lengthy evening lives are OVERFLOWING with her past, despite multiple times in therapy, multiple times online "sharing her story" and multiple time on tiktok telling the same stories over and over and over.
Mel chooses to repeat her trauma / her relationship with her mother and brother so much so it's actually disturbing how desperate she still is to repeat visiting it over and over in her own home every single day and night.

Therapists who work 37 hrs a week helping people talk about their trauma have therapy themselves as its too much for any one person to spend talking so much about trauma.

37hrs a week isn't even scratching the surface with the amount of hours Mel dedicates to her obsession with herself and her childhood!??

 

[MsGilmore]

The reason that you can’t get an appointment with your GP Mel is because the NHS is massively underfunded not because of the receptionists. Wind your fat neck in you Tory bint.

 

[Bricktop1]

The reason that you can’t get an appointment with your GP Mel is because the NHS is massively underfunded not because of the receptionists. Wind your fat neck in you Tory bint.

Honestly, what a self-obsessed moron.

 

[Friendsfanatic2022]

From reading Mels comments, it appears Mel is doing what she does just incase a random child /teenager is feeling traumatised and alone & needs to see a vaping, beer drinking, ever growing woman have multiple meltdowns on tiktok. The child/ teenager will see posts telling them to "get dicked" and will be told about a strangers intimate sex life regardless of any trauma the child/teenager has suffered.
They will be shown in great repetitive detail how to live in the past, talk constantly about the past and how to keep the past in their present so it affects their everyday life.
It's quite alarming to read that Mels content is aimed at any traumatised children and young people!

I went through a lot of the same things that she’s said about her own childhood and honestly if I saw her page at 13-18 I’d have cried for her. She’s still dating the predator that groomed her so she can’t move on till she wakes up and gets away from him as well. All she seems to talk about is her trauma and he seems to chat about it with her fairly often. Surely talking about it every single day makes it worse? She’s nowhere near healed and she’s clearly not “silenced” when all she talks about is the trauma!
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Mel says "You would never catch me dead commenting on how someone looks, don't be a scumbag and comment on how people look"

Mel forgets that the other week she said "My mother looks like Jabba The Hutt"

Another case of 'Do as Mel says, not as Mel does'

I’ve noticed that too, really odd! I know she’s abused her but I don’t even discuss my mother or her looks. I simply couldn’t give a duck about any of it anymore and that’s what being healed feels like! She’s so bitter and the only person it affects is her and the relationships she has with others. If her mother is a narcissist then she’ll love seeing how it’s affected her so if anything it’ll satisfy her mum seeing that it’s damaged her enough that it’s all she talks about. She needs to get off TikTok and focus on healing properly
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This is what I’m struggling with, what more can be done? I’ve listened to a good part of it and resonated with a few parts due to a family member going through similar, but it leads me to the golden question “what is she trying to achieve, what now?” And I think I said that in my first ever comment on here. What more can be done?
Whatever has gone on, she’s very clearly not over it and I’m kind of sick of hearing her say she is and that shes “happy”. She actually looks miserable… I haven’t got the words for the creepy fella she lives with, I feel like he’s there for the ride and to absolutely take the piss out of unstable emotions. He gives me really bad energy.

Every time I see her live my husband asks “what’s trauma Mel and the creep saying today?” And he’s one of the most sympathetic men there is!

Exactly what I think too, she’s spoken up about it and that’s all that can really be done? It just feels like she wants constant sympathy for it which is weird. Most people I know don’t even have a clue about my mum or our relationship / lack of as I simply don’t discuss it. I’d hate to talk about that on social media to thousands of people every single day. It’s not helping any of her followers nor is it helping her apart from fuelling her ego for being “strong”
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One minute Mels inappropriately Up, next minute she's, Woe is Mel, Down! Her tiktok is like Groundhog Day! Drama then Crisis and Repeat. But of course at aged 30, it's always everyone else's fault, never Mels It must be like living on a permanent roller coaster.

I think she needs to look into her own mental issues… she could have bipolar disorder herself. She’s up and down like a bastard yo-yo. I’d run away if I had to live with her, her mood swings would drive me batty

 

[Ahbebowgfa]

I went through a lot of the same things that she’s said about her own childhood and honestly if I saw her page at 13-18 I’d have cried for her. She’s still dating the predator that groomed her so she can’t move on till she wakes up and gets away from him as well. All she seems to talk about is her trauma and he seems to chat about it with her fairly often. Surely talking about it every single day makes it worse? She’s nowhere near healed and she’s clearly not “silenced” when all she talks about is the trauma!
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I’ve noticed that too, really odd! I know she’s abused her but I don’t even discuss my mother or her looks. I simply couldn’t give a duck about any of it anymore and that’s what being healed feels like! She’s so bitter and the only person it affects is her and the relationships she has with others. If her mother is a narcissist then she’ll love seeing how it’s affected her so if anything it’ll satisfy her mum seeing that it’s damaged her enough that it’s all she talks about. She needs to get off TikTok and focus on healing properly
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Exactly what I think too, she’s spoken up about it and that’s all that can really be done? It just feels like she wants constant sympathy for it which is weird. Most people I know don’t even have a clue about my mum or our relationship / lack of as I simply don’t discuss it. I’d hate to talk about that on social media to thousands of people every single day. It’s not helping any of her followers nor is it helping her apart from fuelling her ego for being “strong”
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I think she needs to look into her own mental issues… she could have bipolar disorder herself. She’s up and down like a bastard yo-yo. I’d run away if I had to live with her, her mood swings would drive me batty

Ohhhh I’m quite a “new” watcher of Mel so don’t know all of her history, whats this about her husband having groomed her?

 

[angiebabe]

Well Mel, you blocking me even though I didn’t follow you I used to watch yourTikTok & actually felt sorry that you had such a life. Truth will out.

 

[notSUBmissive]

I explained what Mel does to a very wise surgeon last night, they said two words...

"Compulsive Rumination"

How true!!!!

 

[Bbang]

I explained what Mel does to a very wise surgeon last night, they said two words...

"Compulsive Rumination"

How true!!!!

Unfortunately 100% I struggle with this after what my ex-husband did to me. The only thing that’s helped me was trauma focussed therapy. She needs to stop putting herself back in the trauma and start attempting to contain it and remove it from her life. It’s sad what she’s doing to herself really.

 

[Friendsfanatic2022]

Ohhhh I’m quite a “new” watcher of Mel so don’t know all of her history, whats this about her husband having groomed her?

He was her grans gardener and I believe he was already married when they met with multiple kids. I think she was 15 she said and he was well into his 20’s
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Well Mel, you blocking me even though I didn’t follow you I used to watch yourTikTok & actually felt sorry that you had such a life. Truth will out.

Have you ever commented? How did she block you if you haven’t followed her or commented?

 

[MadGal]

So according Mel(on head) what people do on here discussing her, is what her mom put her through as a child! So in her opinion, anyone that has any kind of negative opinion on someone else is abusing them? She says all this and in the next breath when someone in the live asked her if she like Alpha, she spoke negative about her and wandered why she still had a platform

So it’s ok Mel for you to speak negatively on another creator but no one to have any kind of negative opinion about you! I’m not a fan of alpha, but surely you practice what you preach! It’s the first time today I’ve watched more than a few mins of her live and she actually comes across so rude when her followers are asking her things she either ignores, screws up a face or turns her reply back to being all about me me me

Also, so much for being scared about people knowing where you lived last week, this week she’s telling everyone on live that she’s away from her house from Sunday to Tuesday! Why do creators let people know when their houses are going to empty online!

 

[notSUBmissive]

**Trigger Warning **

In her latest video, all in one sentence Mel says

"my brother sexually abused me when I was 9 years old and he is now a convicted paedophile"

That sentence, which she's said MANY times before is clearly designed to imply she was raped as a child and is a real insult to the many children who were raped as children.

I am qualified to speak about abused children as I've seen too many at work & i was sexually abused as a child. I am ABSOLUTELY SICK of Mel trying desperately to get a bigger tiktok following by repeatedly implying her childhood was far worse than what she says it was to get a following, and then earning money from that following.

Many abused children were raped in their home for years, regularly beaten, underfed, removed from their homes, placed in care and or foster care, constantly shouted and sworn at instead of spoken to, disciplined physically, burnt with cigarettes, given alcohol to make them sleep, regularly shaken and thrown by adults, had years of veneral diseases as children, made to sleep in dirty flea ridden beds, made to wear unhygienic clothing and underwear, left scared, hungry and thirsty home alone when under age most nights. Some were passed around like rag dolls, some had to have reconstructive surgery to repair where small children were raped. I could go on...

Mel needs to get some perspective, ok she alleges her childhood wasn't the best. Thank god it wasn't like many other children's! She never even acknowledges that many of her followers will have suffered far worse than she did as she is a stuck record repeating her childhood over and over to many people who think she got off lightly! When people do ask her for help she has no idea what to say each time they ask. She's pathetic absolutely pathetic. She cannot even signpost people to places as she's criticised them all in her woe is Mel rants.

Mels page is all about Mel wallowing and being miserable in public, whilst alluding to certain things that didn't happen to her and repeating over and over the things that did, all said to get paid and profit from and I think that's disgusting.

 

[MsGilmore]

**Trigger Warning **

In her latest video, all in one sentence Mel says

"my brother sexually abused me when I was 9 years old and he is now a convicted paedophile"

That sentence, which she's said MANY times before is clearly designed to imply she was raped as a child and is a real insult to the many children who were raped as children.

I am qualified to speak about abused children as I've seen too many at work & i was sexually abused as a child. I am ABSOLUTELY SICK of Mel trying desperately to get a bigger tiktok following by repeatedly implying her childhood was far worse than what she says it was to get a following, and then earning money from that following.

Many abused children were raped in their home for years, regularly beaten, underfed, removed from their homes, placed in care and or foster care, constantly shouted and sworn at instead of spoken to, disciplined physically, burnt with cigarettes, given alcohol to make them sleep, regularly shaken and thrown by adults, had years of veneral diseases as children, made to sleep in dirty flea ridden beds, made to wear unhygienic clothing and underwear, left scared, hungry and thirsty home alone when under age most nights. Some were passed around like rag dolls, some had to have reconstructive surgery to repair where small children were raped. I could go on...

Mel needs to get some perspective, ok she alleges her childhood wasn't the best. Thank god it wasn't like many other children's! She never even acknowledges that many of her followers will have suffered far worse than she did as she is a stuck record repeating her childhood over and over to many people who think she got off lightly! When people do ask her for help she has no idea what to say each time they ask. She's pathetic absolutely pathetic. She cannot even signpost people to places as she's criticised them all in her woe is Mel rants.

Mels page is all about Mel wallowing and being miserable in public, whilst alluding to certain things that didn't happen to her and repeating over and over the things that did, all said to get paid and profit from and I think that's disgusting.

I understand that this triggers you and enrages you, but Mel was neglected and abused regardless of whether it wasn’t as bad as cases that you have seen. We can disapprove of her making money from her vulnerable followers and her being bleeping annoying without dismissing what actually happened to her.

 

[ThePidge]

I don’t really understand why she said to the police “the abuse may have happened”, like the case wasn’t strong enough from the get go.
I wonder if she regrets saying it like that? That would bother me to no end.

 

[notSUBmissive]

I understand that this triggers you and enrages you, but Mel was neglected and abused regardless of whether it wasn’t as bad as cases that you have seen. We can disapprove of her making money from her vulnerable followers and her being bleeping annoying without dismissing what actually happened to her.

She tells us every single day what happened to her so we are all aware of her childhood.

My disgust with her behaviour is not saying crappy things didn't happen to her or anyone else. It's dramatising and implying what didn't happen that I take issue with. Telling people multiple times a day she's estranged from her family, she was sexually abused and her brother is a paedophile is implying she was raped every single day. I'd have so much more sympathy for her if she was just honest and didn't imply for money.

It is very wrong to imply it was something else, something that happened to many of her followers that she implies happened to her when it didn't. She's done that and does that to get followers and more money and that's what's very wrong.

Implying she was raped when she wasn't has nothing to do with her mother being a bad mother. Mel is mixing everything together to get more views, and more money which is so wrong.

 

[Bbang]

I don’t think anyone is dismissing what actually happened to her. More rightfully angry she has been implying and alluding to other more serious (in the eyes of the law!) incidents in order to garner views/attention, sympathy and ultimately money/gifts. It’s really hard as a r-word survivor myself to have her be so ambiguous on purpose. It makes me question her morals and her motive.

 

[notSUBmissive]

I don’t think anyone is dismissing what actually happened to her. More rightfully angry she has been implying and alluding to other more serious (in the eyes of the law!) incidents in order to garner views/attention, sympathy and ultimately money/gifts. It’s really hard as a r-word survivor myself to have her be so ambiguous on purpose. It makes me question her morals and her motive.

THANKYOU! I'm struggling to articulate what I want to say as I'm so tired and it's such an emotive issue.

I'm definitely not dismissing anyone who had an awful childhood who wasn't r***d. I'm triggered by her implying she was over and over for followers and money.

 

[MsGilmore]

I’m referring to the paragraph about other people having it worse. Lots of people had it worse than I did.
I understand the anger about her not specifying the type of sexual abuse.
I’m referring to this -

‘Many abused children were raped in their home for years, regularly beaten, underfed, removed from their homes, placed in care and or foster care, constantly shouted and sworn at instead of spoken to, disciplined physically, burnt with cigarettes, given alcohol to make them sleep, regularly shaken and thrown by adults, had years of veneral diseases as children, made to sleep in dirty flea ridden beds, made to wear unhygienic clothing and underwear, left scared, hungry and thirsty home alone when under age most nights. Some were passed around like rag dolls, some had to have reconstructive surgery to repair where small children were raped. I could go on...

Mel needs to get some perspective, ok she alleges her childhood wasn't the best. Thank god it wasn't like many other children's! She never even acknowledges that many of her followers will have suffered far worse than she did as she is a stuck record repeating her childhood over and over to many people who think she got off lightly! When people do ask her for help she has no idea what to say each time they ask. She's pathetic absolutely pathetic. She cannot even signpost people to places as she's criticised them all in her woe is Mel rants’

 

[JanetDeVana]

Her new video is just waffle she should be telling a therapist. Not TT.

 

[notSUBmissive]

I’m referring to the paragraph about other people having it worse. Lots of people had it worse than I did.
I understand the anger about her not specifying the type of sexual abuse.
I’m referring to this -

‘Many abused children were raped in their home for years, regularly beaten, underfed, removed from their homes, placed in care and or foster care, constantly shouted and sworn at instead of spoken to, disciplined physically, burnt with cigarettes, given alcohol to make them sleep, regularly shaken and thrown by adults, had years of veneral diseases as children, made to sleep in dirty flea ridden beds, made to wear unhygienic clothing and underwear, left scared, hungry and thirsty home alone when under age most nights. Some were passed around like rag dolls, some had to have reconstructive surgery to repair where small children were raped. I could go on...

Mel needs to get some perspective, ok she alleges her childhood wasn't the best. Thank god it wasn't like many other children's! She never even acknowledges that many of her followers will have suffered far worse than she did as she is a stuck record repeating her childhood over and over to many people who think she got off lightly! When people do ask her for help she has no idea what to say each time they ask. She's pathetic absolutely pathetic. She cannot even signpost people to places as she's criticised them all in her woe is Mel rants’

I apologise if I've offended you or anyone. I gave those examples of abuse I've seen at work because many people have suffered those kinds of abuse.
I didn't say it to diminish other people's experiences. I listed them as an example of children who suffer and and don't need to imply or act out anything for money. From many cards and letters I've received over the years many children are living safe healthy lives, unlike Mel who's wallowing in her childhood and implying it's far worse than it was.