I think those women are a minority of wannabees who want attention though, the ones who want to promote themselves as models/influencers or Kanyes next wife. The average woman doesn't think its a good idea to have their breasts on display in inappropriate settings.
They were at a hotel having drinks or tea in last nights episode, not a nightclub or beach resort. The majority of women sitting in a hotel lounge would know it was inappropriate.
It's not even about being appropriate is it. Every born woman knows that if they go out dressed like Ella they will be bombarded with comments, they will be stared at in ways that make them feel uncomfortable and God forbid something happens to them, they will be blamed - because what did you expect to happen dressed like that.
Nothing makes it more obvious that Ella doesn't actually feel like a woman than his clothes. Because he clearly isn't subject to that constant nagging undercurrent of fear that women feel. Every day, just because they are women.
Trans women might be scared that something will happen to them because they're Trans - I'm sure it sometimes does, but it's not the same because they are not the same. You can see it in the confidence they have to stand for themselves. They expect to be listened to, they expect to get what they want, they expect protection.
Women want those things too - but we very rarely expect to get them.