mamof4andmore

[MyOpinion2020]

Not sure how I fell across her page but god it & she is rough out. The house is decorated so tacky. I highly doubt she is actually entitled to Carers Allowance based off Philos ACTUAL income but I would guess that he is not declaring all he earns. By any stretch of the imagination. Their home and lifestyle for a large family requires substantial funds. Poor animals in the mix then....
I cant be the only one who thinks she is actually a functioning alcoholic?! Like how can someone drink that much. Is this normal? Robbin Philos cans? How can someone be that badly off for a drink

 

[sugs10]

Not sure how I fell across her page but god it & she is rough out. The house is decorated so tacky. I highly doubt she is actually entitled to Carers Allowance based off Philos ACTUAL income but I would guess that he is not declaring all he earns. By any stretch of the imagination. Their home and lifestyle for a large family requires substantial funds. Poor animals in the mix then....
I cant be the only one who thinks she is actually a functioning alcoholic?! Like how can someone drink that much. Is this normal? Robbin Philos cans? How can someone be that badly off for a drink

I am shocked by the amount she drinks. Don’t get me wrong I enjoy a few drinks at the weekend but I don’t think it’s normal to sit on your own getting pissed

 

[MyOpinion2020]

I am shocked by the amount she drinks. Don’t get me wrong I enjoy a few drinks at the weekend but I don’t think it’s normal to sit on your own getting pissed

This!!!!!!! I'd swear she is a functioning alcoholic tbh??? . I'm no perfect mother wife or anything else but to me... the amount of binge drinking is a problem. I assume it's a coping mechanism, hopefully that hasn't turned into an addiction.

 

[sugs10]

This!!!!!!! I'd swear she is a functioning alcoholic tbh??? . I'm no perfect mother wife or anything else but to me... the amount of binge drinking is a problem. I assume it's a coping mechanism, hopefully that hasn't turned into an addiction.

I’ve thought this about her many times. To be honest philo comes across as a pig and I know I may be way off the mark here but I don’t think they have the best relationship. You can see the excitement on her face when she says she’s looking forward to having her gin sitting there getting locked talking into your phone is not normal behaviour in my opinion anyway

 

[MyOpinion2020]

I’ve thought this about her many times. To be honest philo comes across as a pig and I know I may be way off the mark here but I don’t think they have the best relationship. You can see the excitement on her face when she says she’s looking forward to having her gin sitting there getting locked talking into your phone is not normal behaviour in my opinion anyway

Girl we have the exact same impression of the whole situation or what she shows, that is. I think she is essentially raising those kids alone but needs his money. only for that shed be gone I'd say. She is a very good looking woman... no fear of her there at all. The IG is a hobby, something JUST for her. Its interaction and human contact. She is lonely. The drink numbs the pain. Cope. Sessions at the weekends over n over n over again to blot it all out. As a mam of 4 she has some social life. I havnt had a good session in near 2 yrs id say. More fool me eh. Between that, the hotel trips dinners out takeaways and Ali shoppin.... shes used to a good lifestyle. Doesnt mean she's happy.

 

[sugs10]

Girl we have the exact same impression of the whole situation or what she shows, that is. I think she is essentially raising those kids alone but needs his money. only for that shed be gone I'd say. She is a very good looking woman... no fear of her there at all. The IG is a hobby, something JUST for her. Its interaction and human contact. She is lonely. The drink numbs the pain. Cope. Sessions at the weekends over n over n over again to blot it all out. As a mam of 4 she has some social life. I havnt had a good session in near 2 yrs id say. More fool me eh. Between that, the hotel trips dinners out takeaways and Ali shoppin.... shes used to a good lifestyle. Doesnt mean she's happy.

100% agree he appears to do absolute nothing with the kids. Even when she was saying on Sunday that he has to have a Sunday dinner you couldn’t give him anything else he just comes across as horrible. You can tell she does everything. And the money is obviously always there and keeps her in a comfortable life the alternative would be being a single parent with three kids with additional needs and that would obviously be extremely tough.

 

[MyOpinion2020]

100% agree he appears to do absolute nothing with the kids. Even when she was saying on Sunday that he has to have a Sunday dinner you couldn’t give him anything else he just comes across as horrible. You can tell she does everything. And the money is obviously always there and keeps her in a comfortable life the alternative would be being a single parent with three kids with additional needs and that would obviously be extremely tough.

Have to say I've heard the comment bought Sunday dinner more than once... it never sits well with me. Combined with everything else.....

If he wants it he can cook it!!! Shes raising your 4 kids and keeping your home. Like wtf. If she doesnt do a Sunday roast u know where the kitchen is. Or better still off out to the pub with ye again. Why does that always come down to her to sort? Cause hes a lazy mastagonistic pig that's why.

 

[Tell me more]

She’s been very quiet the last few days, definitely reading here!

 

[Here for the gos!]

No talk to Trish this week? Thank god

 

[Whitefloor]

I missed it this week. I really like her. I think this thread has put her off

 

[BusyLizzie]

I missed it this week. I really like her. I think this thread has put her off

I doubt that very much ... she often takes a break from SM for a few days at a time .... she strikes me as someone who doesn’t care too much about what people say/think about her .... there’s hardly been enough on here to affect her only a couple of people saying that they just tap on when it’s on ....

 

[sugs10]

Well that and her whole entire life being picked apart from people trying to calculate her family income to commenting on how tit they think her partner is to commenting on how she spends all her partners money all the time which btw generally when you are a family with a single income then the money is family money and not "philos money", jesus it's like reading throwbacks to the 50s/60s here in this thread some of the comments on the money sitcho.
Anyway I find parts of this thread a very uncomfortable read so I can only imagine how Trish would feel reading them. If it was about me Id be very upset.

Well if she puts every single aspect of her life online then people are gonna talk Maybe she should keep some things private if she doesn’t want people commenting on them.

Well that and her whole entire life being picked apart from people trying to calculate her family income to commenting on how tit they think her partner is to commenting on how she spends all her partners money all the time which btw generally when you are a family with a single income then the money is family money and not "philos money", jesus it's like reading throwbacks to the 50s/60s here in this thread some of the comments on the money sitcho.
Anyway I find parts of this thread a very uncomfortable read so I can only imagine how Trish would feel reading them. If it was about me Id be very upset.

And I can see you’re a new member so just a bit of advice if you’ve found this thread uncomfortable you’re in for a fright around here this thread is extremely mild compared to some

 

[Instawatcher]

Well if she puts every single aspect of her life online then people are gonna talk Maybe she should keep some things private if she doesn’t want people commenting on them.


And I can see you’re a new member so just a bit of advice if you’ve found this thread uncomfortable you’re in for a fright around here this thread is extremely mild compared to some

Oh I've read worse on here, don't get me wrong, I'm not a naive newbie, just only recently created an account. I think this just makes me uncomfortable because she's not some big celeb out there raking in a fortune off putting their life out there on show. She's just a normal girl from up the road who's really just having the chats on instagram having a laugh, getting a few #gifted here and there but would be in no way equiped to deal with reading this on here. Just imagining how I'd feel. If I was famous and loaded I wouldn't give a tit I'd laugh it off because at end of the day would just be getting me more attention and money but if it was me now I'd be mortified wondering who was reading it that might know me

 

[MyOpinion2020]

Noone tried to actually calculate his money. The assumption is being made that he is on good money, maybe some nixers, as they have a large family good home good lifestyle and they're are well cared for. The personal comments I see is the drinking and assumptions on her relationship. I'm sure she has said Philo doesnt want to be on camera so.. that leaves people make assumptions when they only see snippets.
Notice how noone has commented on her as a mother (unlike MANY other moms on IG) She is killing it. Kids appear more than well looked after. Hopefully she sees how good a job she is doing. Most of us parenta dont! It's only the lack of philo on IG/rumours on him and drinking people talk about. Aa for the money situation, there are always some extremely nosy people in all our lives whod nearly try work out your hourly rate.

 

[Rainincalafornia]

I have a son who has an awful lot of problems a list as long as your arm, I get no sleep because of this not a minute to myself during the day lock down was horrendous but I put routines in place to help us both as i am a single mother and it is EXTERMLY hard. i get up at 6am after only 2-3 hours sleep just so i can get my cleaning done and food prep for the day, I get my son up we walk out dog, then its home and wash dressed feed and school. i go to work ..... i get home do washing, then collect my son and then its all my attention on him. my sons has appointments too but i take days off from work to go to them i take days off or go in late to make sure im at them or make sure i can go be trained up in whatever his therapist says would help him at home or school.

yes its hard and yes its nice to sit and do nothing at all when the kids are gone but the point here is shes always going shops on her own, yoga on her own, sun rises on her own, coffee in bed on her own, drinking and relaxing..... the list goes on. yes her life is stressful with the kids but at the same time she can put plans into action and help it not be.

What works for one special needs parent doesn't always work for another . Maybe going to all those places on her own is her way of escaping .

 

[Rainincalafornia]

I have to say I liked Trish at the beginning , rapping with her boom box but now it's boring Ali swipe ups . Not everyone likes Ali express . I find her content boring now .
Trish if you are reading this , leave the Ali express stuff to TPHM and find your own content .

 

[Madamex]

The money comment is ridiculous. It's not his money its their money!

 

[BusyLizzie]

The money comment is ridiculous. It's not his money its their money!

Well she’s said before she doesn’t have her own money but that she just had to ask & philo would give it to her ..... and she’s started a ‘running away fund’ after advice given to people on her ‘talk to Trish’ segment so I very much doubt it’s their money !

 

[Madamex]

Well she’s said before she doesn’t have her own money but that she just had to ask & philo would give it to her ..... and she’s started a ‘running away fund’ after advice given to people on her ‘talk to Trish’ segment so I very much doubt it’s their money !

Yeah and it's wrong imo. It should be their money. If a stay at home mam buys clothes for herself etc she is not spending her husband's money is she?

 

[Beans.means..]

Its not like shes begging him for money. She has his bank card and credit card if she ever needs it.