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Maybe they didn’t? Why would they be reluctant to hand it over if they have it on record ? the Maddie investigation was flawed from the start , how reliable are the police in that small town
As reliable as police in small towns all over the world, including here.
 
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Yeah no.

Also - a “photogenic couple” - really?! Gerry & Kate McCann?! Come on.
I think Kate was pretty, in a petite small featured way, but probably not Gerry, he looks a bit controlling too to me.

I think the part about a lot of people still believing that Madeleine was abducted and want whoever did it to be found and punished, is so true.
It also applies to those that believe that her parents either killed her or covered up a fatal accident, because in the back of their minds there’s always the “what if I’m wrong and she actually was abducted?”
Because there’s still always the idea that someone may be living free and unpunished for it and that just isn’t a good thought.
 
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I think Kate was pretty, in a petite small featured way, but probably not Gerry, he looks a bit controlling too to me.
I always thought Kate looked as if she was frightened of him. The way he held her hand, it wasn’t a couple holding hands for support, he was gripping it as if he was controlling her.
I don’t think they killed her, but I believe that they are covering up something up. Maybe her disappearance, maybe guilt that they left them alone that night.
Gerry was too defensive, too arrogant. Kate looked drawn and terrified. She is either hiding something or scared that she will saybthecwron* thing and incur Gerry’s wrath
 
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Exactly this, he certainly wasn’t a man I could warm to that’s for sure.
 
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Just imagining my child going missing is enough to make me feel like this. Once my child got out of bed and was opening and closing our front door (afternoon nap, door wasn't locked, I'm not perfect) and for days after I kept panicking about this, thinking what if he walked out and something happened and getting up to check the door was locked and he didn't even leave our house so this definitely rings true with me.
 
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Ok…here goes.
My ex was a controlling man. At the time we were a very happy family, Enid Blyton type. But only because I did everything to make life easy, kids well behaved, smart, clean, no arguments. I was on a permanent diet, hair always just right, dressed smartly. Great cook but we only ate what he liked.
Life was bliss…as long as we did what he wanted.
I won’t bore you details but at that time, if he had insisted we went for a meal and left the children alone then I would have done it.
Anything to maintain the happy family. I really believed I was doing the best for my children.
When I look at Kate, I see me and him.

When I did stand up to him…I got promoted at work, was earning the same so queried why I could not make family decisions then he punished me by having an affair. It wasn’t the first, he did it to show I was not indispensable. But it gave me the courage to break free. My big mistake was not being open with my children and telling them how I had been bullied.

Kate is carrying guilt and still has two children to support and protect. She is hiding something.
When I look at her, I think….that could have been me, doing something I did not want to do just to keep everyone happy.
 
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Gerry is cocky and defensively aggressive in stuff Ive seen.
 
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Oh I completely understand, I don’t think I’ve ever quite recovered from losing my son for an hour when he was much younger. The adrenaline works on you in a strange way, everything is heightened and I can still remember things that happened in that hour in minute detail. Afterwards my sleep was disrupted for days and like you I went over and over it in my mind afterwards, thinking about what could have happened. And that was only an hour!

In the Peter Hyatt video he says that a parent’s emotional response to losing a child is so intense that if those hormones aren’t brought down quickly, the parent will potentially suffer from PTSD for years afterwards even if the child is found safe and sound. That made so much sense to me and helped to explain the very sad suicide of a friend of mine who had almost lost her son in an accident: he fully recovered and her death never made sense to me until I heard that.

Maybe they didn’t? Why would they be reluctant to hand it over if they have it on record ? the Maddie investigation was flawed from the start , how reliable are the police in that small town
In what way do you think the investigation was flawed from the beginning? I’m genuinely interested in this subject.

Fascinating post, thank you. I’m glad you are out of that situation.
 
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maybe we should be Questioning the significance of Gerry and Kate's visit to Clement Freud's villa and how they enjoyed the delicious strawberry daquaries he prepared! ......... I always have found it strange what the significance of their visit it to him was for, especially as we didn't here any mention of him and him aiding them until after Kate McCann released her book!
 
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ive seen Kate interact with her daughter at Luton airport - pretty sure they were going to Portugal, my understanding is that they go back and forth frequently to keep the case alive and ongoing. This was a couple of years ago.

they seemed pretty warm with each other, she’s a teen now. They were shopping together like any regular mother/daughter - for what it’s worth
 
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The daughter must be stunning. She was such an extremely gorgeous baby and toddler.
 
The daughter must be stunning. She was such an extremely gorgeous baby and toddler.
I didn’t want to stare at them for obvious reasons, but she was a young teen when I saw her and more sweet looking than stunning. She has gorgeous blonde hair and just came across as a nice, sweet tweeny out shopping with her mum.
 
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What an odd/creepy thing to say about a child.
Is it? Sorry, didn’t intend to be creepy at all! I’m not a native speaker. She was a beautiful baby. Hope that’s less creepy.
I‘m generally not a big fan of commenting on babys‘ or children‘s looks myself.
But in this case, both the twins look on the pictures we know of them quite special and remarkable. Therefore I wanted to point this out, knowing they (and their parents) hopefully won’t read.
What we make of this impression I‘m not sure.
 
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Nope sorry making comments about how “gorgeous” a baby/toddler or child is, is fucking creepy.
The person explained that they didn’t mean it in a creepy way, sounds like it was more of an observation than anything! I was shopping earlier and a stranger looked into my babies seat and smiled and said “he’s beautiful” that’s not creepy in my eyes
 
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Nope sorry making comments about how “gorgeous” a baby/toddler or child is, is fucking creepy.
I call babies and toddlers gorgeous all the time. I also called pets gorgeous. Why is that creepy? It’s the same as calling someone/something beautiful. There’s nothing inappropriate or creep with that?
 
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Or what about the time they randomly stated that the Portuguese police did not want a murder in their country and that’s the reason they jeopardised the case!
1. Why was murder on their mind when they stuck to the storyline she was stolen from her bed. 2. What proof is there that the police jeopardised the case, they solved it and yet the U.K. public turned on them when none of the evidence was shown in the U.K. media.

the police offered Kate a secret deal to confess to what happened and she’d be given protection. For them to suggest that there must have been further evidence that lead them to believe Kate was scared of gerry or someone else involved and was the weak link to get through to. She didn’t confess anything but used it against them for the U.K. media. The police offer was harassed and his dog was killed in his own garden. Whatever involvement the mccanns had, they had people at the click of a finger to do their dirty work for them. They sued anyone and everyone for daring to believe the evidence. They don’t deserve the oxygen they breathe.

To add - the murder comment was later changed to abduction when printed in the media, but it was during an interview that I and many others heard first hand
 
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