It is such a horrible disease, I lost an ex's mum to it in my early 20s and saw how much she and her family suffered. It is sick that people would lie about it, it makes an utter mockery of the people who are going through it as it is utterly awful.You poor thing, what a horrible experience. Thankfully not everyone is like that out there but definitely take a step back until you feel happier in yourself having just lost my MiL to cancer I’ll happily find him and rip his arms off so I have something to hit him with.
I hope you and your partner are okay
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Because from his tiktok I found someone who looked like his wife from the whatsapp pic (it was blurry on whatsapp but she was quite a tall brunette and i am ashamed to say i checked a lot of his followers on facebook if they had names attached to their profiles). Curiosity and a slow day made me look them up on Facebook. They have two kids with the names he used for the guy I was dating and his brother.How did you find out he was married and used his kids’ names? What a complete fantasist. There are some strange people who walk among us.
I knew the "brother" was married already. But the details about him matched exactly with the person I was dating (minus the wife, kids etc). But the location / job etc was the same. Also the "brother" doesn't have a brother called "T" (the one I was dating). He does have a brother but with a different name.
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My friends were saying I should write a book about my dating experiences and I just might. There have been a few utterly mind boggling experiences but none like this . May as well make some cash from the brain ache.
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