Sorry, but I just have to comment after seeing her stories about her grandfather. She said he went into a home and she doesn’t know when or if she will ever see her Nonno again.
Why then, when she had the time and before he was put in a home, didn’t she spend as much time as she can with him?
My grandmother had Alzheimer’s. It was sad to see her not remember anyone and anything. She would come to our house to visit ( she lived a couple of houses down from us ) and she would not know who we were. My mom would patiently remind her who she was and where she was. Looking back after she passed away, and knowing what I know now, I would have spent as much time with my grandmother. That is one of my biggest regret in life.
I hope she is not doing this just for the engagement. But like most of you, I question her authenticity. She never has, and probably never will, think about anyone other than herself.