Lydia wishes she was a "brand". She has no strategy or vision to be a brand. She is a salesperson who very much resents her job in sales and being treated like a salesperson.
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how did you know she doesn't follow caroline? is that an app where we can find who is following a specific person?Caroline’s thread here started on the 13/14 December.
The day she was arrested for domestic abuse against her boyfriend and the day the story was splashed across the internet .
not before that,
not during two seasons of love island and many, many articles about her
wherever you stand on her DV case, the media hounded her, I think they said there was 40 articles alone on Mailonline or the Sun, In what 2 months?
Unfortunately when you’re in the public eye you need to realise with the good comes the bad, especially when her life took the direction it did over the last six months.
she was trolled online, like her ex boyfriend was when her death was released and users on Instagram blamed him and asked him if he was feeling guilty for reporting the DV.
“Bet you feel guilty now....”
Or before that,
the messages sent to Caroline about her self harm/being a general mess/how she belongs in jail.
That is trolling.
but you know what turns my actual stomach, grief vultures.
Lydia, did you even follow Caroline Flack??
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Oh, that would be a no!!!!
but you have no problem jumping on her bandwagon and using her death as an excuse to talk about yourself.
And this is the reason Lydia and so many influencers have a thread here.
The lack of self awareness is SHOCKING.
The entitlement,
the lack of respect for a dead woman they’re now in shock over, stunned and saddened. YOU HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON OTHER THAN YOUR SEX AND THE FACT YOUR BRITISH MAYBE!!
how any of these idiots can twist her story to be about themselves and suit their narrative is MINDBLOWING!!!!
that lack of respect has been apparent for a long time in how she views and treats her “fans”
get off your condescending high horse Lydia.
You are a brand, we are the consumers,
See this as a type of trip advisor.
Is that also a community built on hate?
next time you tweet your disappointment in a brand or service should we give you a hug because you’re clearly an angry troll who needs love.
I’m so over these vultures.
Rant. Sorry.
look at her followers list and type in the person you’re looking for, so from this you see she’s following hirons, not a sign of flack.
Stupid me! I can't believe i didn't get it on my own! Thanks!
@Oohthedrama 'grief vulture'...that's exactly what lydl is! She literally feeds off negativity & seeks out a way to exploit it for her own gain. Lydl labels her gossip reading as 'self harm addiction. No. It's a self satisfying supply of tips to improve her performance & fuel to an obsession with playing the victim. Classic narc trait.
So incredibly frustrating and dangerous that everyone is jumping on the Caroline Flack bandwagon. Yes it’s sad she died, yes feel free to make a tweet about how sad it is she died but leave it at that.
People have absolutely no knowledge of exactly why she took her own life, and all these influencers and Twitter blue ticks screaming for the media, cps/police and even the boyfriend to feel blame is counter productive.
how about waiting until the coroner has explained the circumstances and a statement is released?!
DV is a serious issue not only in the U.K. but around the world. Charities and campaigners have been shouting for years that the authorities need to do more to tackle it. For this reason, it has long been the case that Police/cps will press ahead with a case even without a victims consent. Why? Because most victims once the intial shock has worn off, then regret calling, feel intimated by their partner or are scared of the court process. The reasons are varied and love can be blind. So sometimes people need safe guarding without realising. Now everyone is screaming #carolineslaw and how dare a case be taken forward without a victims consent. What is the result of that...... more abuse and death through DV! “Oh you’ve been battered over the head with a lamp but don’t want to take it forward? No bother, we’ll pretend it never happened. Good luck with you life bye”
The authorities can’t do that.
Theres no doubt the media went after her like a pack of wolves. Was there a need for it? No! But then there have been countless times throughout her life that the media promoted her positively!
If people like Lydia get their wish and constrain not only the media, but ipso-facto forums like ours - how does that conflict with free speech? It’s a very fine line, and people need to do some research before they start spouting shite!
People have absolutely no knowledge of exactly why she took her own life, and all these influencers and Twitter blue ticks screaming for the media, cps/police and even the boyfriend to feel blame is counter productive.
how about waiting until the coroner has explained the circumstances and a statement is released?!
DV is a serious issue not only in the U.K. but around the world. Charities and campaigners have been shouting for years that the authorities need to do more to tackle it. For this reason, it has long been the case that Police/cps will press ahead with a case even without a victims consent. Why? Because most victims once the intial shock has worn off, then regret calling, feel intimated by their partner or are scared of the court process. The reasons are varied and love can be blind. So sometimes people need safe guarding without realising. Now everyone is screaming #carolineslaw and how dare a case be taken forward without a victims consent. What is the result of that...... more abuse and death through DV! “Oh you’ve been battered over the head with a lamp but don’t want to take it forward? No bother, we’ll pretend it never happened. Good luck with you life bye”
The authorities can’t do that.
Theres no doubt the media went after her like a pack of wolves. Was there a need for it? No! But then there have been countless times throughout her life that the media promoted her positively!
If people like Lydia get their wish and constrain not only the media, but ipso-facto forums like ours - how does that conflict with free speech? It’s a very fine line, and people need to do some research before they start spouting shite!
Lydias tweets just keep irritating me! I agree with the things she says in regards to try and be kind, because honestly, the whole CF thing is just horrendous and it’s made me stop and think about some of the things I may say, or how much I comment online. . However, Lydia herself is so horrible to people! She jumps down people’s throats online for just having an opinion, or if she doesn’t get a compliment. So I also think she needs to start by looking in the mirror too.
Lydia can set up 3 accounts on Instagram, she can have a blog and a YouTube channel and she can even do a frigging podcast.
but her personality is at home on twitter, judging others, patronising others, dictating what should and shouldn’t be said, and being the condescending twit she’s always been. I don’t enjoy twitter but twitter people.
They are her people.
but her personality is at home on twitter, judging others, patronising others, dictating what should and shouldn’t be said, and being the condescending twit she’s always been. I don’t enjoy twitter but twitter people.
They are her people.
I'll be betting $5 that will encourage people to go here and read the threads.
This is so important. I think the real message always gets lost in the screams of “online bullies”. We have no idea why this happened but clearly she was in a bad mental state to make such a choice.
Between my husband and I we’ve had 3 suicides in our wider circle over the years. No one saw it coming and years after the fact we still don’t know why. All adult men with families. Suicide is complex.
I really feel we do more harm than good pointing fingers when we know nothing. I’m sure all the online trolling does not help a fragile person but there’s more going on here. I feel like a bunch of people are jumping on the bandwagon pushing agendas that suit them personally.
Influencers have commodified and commercialised their lives in order to make money. I think they feel justified in reacting strongly to criticism because it’s so personal? But they made the choice to turn themselves in to the brand. Like any company or brand, not everyone is going to like it. I’ve stayed at bad hotels, I don’t buy from certain stores etc. It’s somehow fine for us (and often the influencers) to complain about companies, yet when we complain about the influencers (Registered at companies house companies!) it’s bullying...
The worst thing is there are so many cases of properly awful cyber abuse. Of revenge porn, doxxing, teenager girls bullied until they end their own life etc. A gossip forum about Lydia (A brand/company) and her overuse of filler isn’t quite the same, IMO.
The worst thing is there are so many cases of properly awful cyber abuse. Of revenge porn, doxxing, teenager girls bullied until they end their own life etc. A gossip forum about Lydia (A brand/company) and her overuse of filler isn’t quite the same, IMO.
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Lydl is just twisting this for her own gain. Back story for any non UK tattlers: Caroline Flack was arested by the police & charged with 'assault by beating'. The boyfriend later dropped the charges but the CPS were persuing a conviction. Fathers for Justice, an organisation who protest against the stigma/ignorance around male domestic abuse, were discussing caroline, not 'online communities' that lydl apparently beat her addiction to. Also the Daily Mail continually ran stories on her ex boyfriend Andrew Brady's non disclosure agreement.
All we are now seeing is each influencer posting how 'trolls' need to be banned from having an oppinion on their sad materialistic existence. 'They must be stopped!' Because they might affect their sub count. What's the real fear here? Certainly not the end of anyone's life, just the end of their precious, freebie filled, lazy careers.
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Lydia is not an intelligent human being. She is a reality-tv-binge-watcher type of girl (no offence if some of you watch the shows as well, as sometimes they help to switch off your mind after a tough day at work). But with Lydia there is nothing to take a mental break from. Her entire life is a mental break from anything that requires using brain capacity. I’m more than confident she sees herself as a reality TV star as well. Thus, she only jumps at defence of entertainment industry celebrities and influenzas. In her imaginary world there are no other public figures out there that might be subject to online gossip/discussion. So, when her little mind thinks of relief from online “negativity”, she is not even thinking that any preventive ruling will automatically cancel democracy and freedom of speech.
It is awfully sad about Caroline there’s no denying that. But all these people who are jumping on it and claiming the media are terrible etc are the exact people who thrive off it. It is ultimate hypocrisy. For example, the kardashian/jenners who have often spoke about how annoying it is that they get followed around by paparazzi but then post the same “candid” images on their Instagram which are taken by the paparazzi that they moan about. Same with less known celebs eg wags or soap stars. They are known to call the paparazzi on themselves and enjoy the free press on the daily mail when they’re going the salon etc. I just find it all so hypocritical. Same with Lydia saying she’s removed all negative media - youtube could be classed as this by a lot of people and your livelihood depends on this, you’ve made a career from the same outlets that you now bash.
I know everyone will have got the notification but considering we’re talking about it here!!!
I know everyone will have got the notification but considering we’re talking about it here!!!
This is literally everything I was trying to say in my last post.
Lydia is on no similar level to Caroline. I don’t know what was going through her mind but she had the worst moments of her life called out for all to see and played on for months.
While it might not be nice for Lydia to see nasty things written about her she has chosen this life and to live her life publicly. Yet she has never had her worst times plastered all over the internet. She has never had the same level as Caroline so why should we all feel sorry for her now? Now that she is using this tragic event to gain sympathy ? I’ve seen so many YouTube videos made by people and they’re asked how to make it in YouTube and they all say the same about having a thick skin because people will say nasty things.
You’re not telling me Lydia has never once said a nasty thing about someone else. She made a sly dig about people on tattle and something about people going on it to feel fulfilled with their lives or something.
While it’s not fair they get things about them slated - that’s life. People probably say nasty tit about me in real life too. That’s the world we live in and have always lived in. You’re not telling me 100 years ago people never slagged off other people. We just have the internet now
I did have to laugh at Mrs Meldrum pulling her soapbox out on Instagram. No different to Lydia.
if you’re gonna start judging others you need to make sure your own side of the sidewalk is clean
I did have to laugh at Mrs Meldrum pulling her soapbox out on Instagram. No different to Lydia.
if you’re gonna start judging others you need to make sure your own side of the sidewalk is clean
I did have to laugh at Mrs Meldrum pulling her soapbox out on Instagram. No different to Lydia.
if you’re gonna start judging others you need to make sure your own side of the sidewalk is clean
Exactly. From videos I’ve seen in the past a lot of YouTube’s say they skip events because of the clicky bitchy groups amongst those that do go. They’re probably some of the worst for it
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