That routine she has just shared, how many of her followers are going to think that’s what their baby should be doingI can’t believe a baby of her age is only having 4 main feeds in 24 hours. Also surely this routine is going to change as she gets older, she’s certainly not going to nap for almost 5 hours a day when she’s 6 months plus
And then theres Lucy Mecks story saying she got 3 hours sleep. Lydia is that mum friend I would secretly resentThat’s so trueimagine having a 10 hour sleep at night and 5 hours of naps in the day
and will make lots of parents feel inadequate. We had absolutely no nap routine with our baby at that age - baby slept when she wanted and fed when wanted. All on us or close by. In fact only at 8 or 9 months have I now got a sort of routine with timings etc. and it was for such a short amount of time in the scheme of things and it's a shame Lydia hasnt experienced that in favour of housework etc.I really like Lucy she's proved me wrong having baby and isn't throwing everything down your throat...And then theres Lucy Mecks story saying she got 3 hours sleep. Lydia is that mum friend I would secretly resent
my little girl napped for 2 and a half hours solid today for the first time and most of it was on me, only put her down to grab something from the fridge and go to the loo quickly then she was straight back in my arms as she wakes up crying when i'm not nearby. Honestly never seen a bigger idiot in my life 
She was sleep training Loretta at 4 weeks old so it wasn’t even that long.I can’t believe she thinks she’s relatable, the whole I’m a single mum and look how easy my life is I find so patronising, I’m not a single mum and I find it really hard some days, some days we have a routine, some days my house is a mess
I watched that video she did about her birth and she said what was hard about becoming a mum “sleep deprivation was hard” she wasn’t 3 months old when she filmed that so she had what 10 weeks of not a full night sleep? I don’t know how Lucy puts up with her, I would have disowned her by now
I remember her being so happy about not Breast feeding and baby sleeping for 10 hours and she getting a full nights sleep.... because her sister did the night timeI can’t believe she thinks she’s relatable, the whole I’m a single mum and look how easy my life is I find so patronising, I’m not a single mum and I find it really hard some days, some days we have a routine, some days my house is a mess
I watched that video she did about her birth and she said what was hard about becoming a mum “sleep deprivation was hard” she wasn’t 3 months old when she filmed that so she had what 10 weeks of not a full night sleep? I don’t know how Lucy puts up with her, I would have disowned her by now
). I swear to God, she must be the first woman ever to have a baby!!! Thankfully she is imparting all of her wisdom with us. She blatantly says she visits her family every day in her stories and the most insulting bit - 'it's hard being a working mum'. It's all I can do not to DM her with something really, really insulting. Working mum?!? Her daily routine sets aside two hours to do instagram rubbish - is that what she means by working??? Thick as pig sh*t.You’re totally right. Weirdly despite what Lydia and co think if you only have one baby and you’re at home most of the time especially since it’s lockdown I sort of think it’s maybe easier to be almost completely baby led for the first few months? I’m new to this so maybe I’m wrong but for me I feel it’s easier. No expectations. I can see her own little routine loosely forming but I don’t stress if she diverts from it. I’m not doing much else so I can make meeting her needs a completely priority and it’s kind of chill.
Mumma knows best... my baby isThank god for tattle because our babies are days apart and I honestly would have seen that and been 1. Worried I’m over feeding my baby (even though I know I’m not) 2. Worried that my baby does not have set naps 3. Thinking maybe I can leave my baby when she naps 4. Thinking I should be back to pre pregnancy weight.
But thankfully you’re all hear to confirm she’s weird... off to follow Lucy now
Being a mummy is bloody hard that's why!!! The sleep deprivation the constant learning the unknowing the googling symptoms the worry and over whelming love and emotions wanting to do right by your baby. But you're doing amazing.
When she was staying at her parents her mum did night duty while Lydia slept so people shouldn’t feel inadequate in anyway!!! And now she’s at home on her own she’s probably pretending that the baby is sleeping through to make herself look like super mum!!She says she is exhausted
i can't wait for her to get smacked down to reality but I guess Loretta will be packed off to the grandparents so lydia can still get her 10 hours kipEverything you have said is spot on. My son has just turn 3 months and we still don’t have a routine. Some days he takes longer naps than others (he really fights his daytime sleep lol). plus I can only get him to sleep when he is physically lying on top of me which I’m ok about as I love having our cuddle time and feel it’s help build a bond over time (I struggled at the start as I had an emergency section and was really drowsy and wasn’t first to cuddle or hold him so found bonding hard to begin with). She’s really missing out in having time just you and baby in a bubble plus making out it’s perfect all the time it’s not there is definitely hard times when you have a baby and especially first time as still learning yourself. Lydia is so obsessed with routine and the way she fed Loretta from the start leaving her hungry to train her I found upsetting. Sorry for hijacking your post and rambling on using your post just wanted to agree with you
