Just re. the comments on her behaviour being 'weird' or some of her actions being suspicious. Every single one of us is different...all of us have different stress reactions or ways of responding when our mh is poor. The fact that some of us wouldn't have smiled in a situation, or written wildly on a post-it, or admitted to something we hadn't done doesn't automatically mean she's guilty.
I know quite a lot of posters, here and elsewhere, have found her Facebook searching on Xmas day to be particularly suspicious...yet not everyone celebrates Xmas. Some people have a low key day, before I had my son I would see family but do my normal things during the day (reading news, looking at the internet etc.) And of course, lots of NHS staff will be working on Xmas day, so I hardly think the fact that it's Xmas day makes it any weirder than it already is.
I know quite a lot of posters, here and elsewhere, have found her Facebook searching on Xmas day to be particularly suspicious...yet not everyone celebrates Xmas. Some people have a low key day, before I had my son I would see family but do my normal things during the day (reading news, looking at the internet etc.) And of course, lots of NHS staff will be working on Xmas day, so I hardly think the fact that it's Xmas day makes it any weirder than it already is.