They are 100% going to be the type of parents who make Leo feel he owes them everything for bringing him into the world.
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They are 100% going to be the type of parents who make Leo feel he owes them everything for bringing him into the world.
I think it’s so sad that after four months we’re still yet to see little also smile.
I never usually post on here but the card from Leo made me incredibly sad. I’m actually sat here a bit gobsmacked that Ryan would write such things in a card. I nearly died giving birth to my first and if my husband had written something like that in my first Mother’s Day card I would’ve been horrified. That poor baby.
I bet she is holding out for an interview in a 'cool' mag like Marie Claire or Elle. I think she'll then reveals she haemorraged after the birth.
Putting those cards on Instagram shows how much of this is for attention. She needs to feel validated and remind everyone of her trauma. And they are projecting SO much into that poor kid. Honestly, I do believe she’s had a terrible time of it but I also think she’s probably experienced something loads of other women do. It’s coming across like her complete lack of experience in the real world and with anything other than privilege has meant that mentally she hasn’t been able to deal with whatever happened, and has monumentally dramatised it.
"Now you're better you can look after me too". So much passive aggression from Ryan 
She will 100% be one of these mothers who want recognition on the kids birthday for bringing them into the world. Poor kid.
She will 100% be one of these mothers who want recognition on the kids birthday for bringing them into the world. Poor kid.
She had an extra special year of lockdowns just for her because she’s suffering the most out of anyone in the whole world
Oh god, Hi guys.
Just found this thread... I actually cannot with them, Louise has clearly been through something and needs to heal in whatever way but bloody hell Ryan is a prick, the Boots debacle the other week, just no.
Just found this thread... I actually cannot with them, Louise has clearly been through something and needs to heal in whatever way but bloody hell Ryan is a prick, the Boots debacle the other week, just no.
The cards 
it's a card from a 4 month old baby for god sake! It should just be the standard to mummy, happy 1st mother's day, love you loads etc. She is going to keep that and show it to him when he's older to remind him what he did to her? 
it's a card from a 4 month old baby for god sake! It should just be the standard to mummy, happy 1st mother's day, love you loads etc. She is going to keep that and show it to him when he's older to remind him what he did to her? Also don't normally comment but shocked by that card! It's not like Leo deliberately tried to hurt her he's innocent. The 'i promise I will make it all worthwhile' what does that even mean, very odd and I hope that's just poor wording because it's implying currently the poor boy hasn't made it worthwhile!? He's already putting pressure and expectations on when I think it's important let your child know they are enough just as they are, they don't have to gain love and approval from what they do or achievements etc it should be unconditional
Oh my god what a horrible horrible card.
I usually lurk on this thread but had to comment.
Like Louise I had a traumatic birth after having postpartum cardiomyopathy. Unlike Louise, rather than almost dying, I actually died and was resuscitated during my section.
A week later I was pottering in ITU changing my babies nappy, bathing them, breastfeeding...I had PTSD and had some therapy. I would never hold it against my little bundle the circumstances of their birth.
What a horrible woman, I can't sympathise for her anymore, she has a completely toxic approach to parenthood. That poor little boy.
I usually lurk on this thread but had to comment.
Like Louise I had a traumatic birth after having postpartum cardiomyopathy. Unlike Louise, rather than almost dying, I actually died and was resuscitated during my section.
A week later I was pottering in ITU changing my babies nappy, bathing them, breastfeeding...I had PTSD and had some therapy. I would never hold it against my little bundle the circumstances of their birth.
What a horrible woman, I can't sympathise for her anymore, she has a completely toxic approach to parenthood. That poor little boy.
When people find out about my first child’s birth people always ask how I coped, I coped by putting my child, my innocent baby, first. Because he also had a traumatic time coming into this world, and I did everything I could to make him feel loved, let him know that his mummy is going to be there, every time he cried I was there, every night feed, I was there. I was hurting physically and mentally; but did I show that to my baby boy? No. Did I break down when he wasn’t around and act strong when he was? Yes. Because that’s what you do as a mother. i just wish Louise would realise that she has a gorgeous little boy that needs his mama and to just stop with this self pity act and put that baby first.
“I like it best when u dress me in nice clothes” says all I need to know about this narcissistic material couple, Leo is a prop and nothing more
I feel so sad for poor Leo that I can barely bring myself to see anything related to them anymore.
Those cards! And to think that either Ryan or Louise sat down and wrote such horrific stuff: There's so much underlying resentment and passive aggression on display there, that I'm just speechless! That poor child! No wonder he never smiles.
Louise really needs a great deal of psychiatric care.
Those cards! And to think that either Ryan or Louise sat down and wrote such horrific stuff: There's so much underlying resentment and passive aggression on display there, that I'm just speechless! That poor child! No wonder he never smiles.
Louise really needs a great deal of psychiatric care.
And yet, everyone will no doubt message both Ryan and Louise about their "bravery" and for "keeping it honest and real".
Its disgusting that no one stands up to them and says WTF are you doing?!
She genuinely believes that she has had it worse than others doesn't she? No one has suffered like her? It's bloody infuriating!
Its disgusting that no one stands up to them and says WTF are you doing?!
She genuinely believes that she has had it worse than others doesn't she? No one has suffered like her? It's bloody infuriating!
That card is heartbreaking no child should have to make it worth while for their parents...WTF who wrote that, who thought that was ok...arseholes the pair of them
The fact they are both printed cards as well. They couldn’t take the time to write a private personal hand written card? They had to make it printed clearly written ready for Instagram.....trash
Sheesh, the cards! Having a baby apologise and “make it all worthwhile for you” is odious! HE IS GOING TO SEE THEM ONE DAY. 
Both cards seem more for the wider world...no one must forget that she endured the worst hell ever and has fought the hardest.
Both cards seem more for the wider world...no one must forget that she endured the worst hell ever and has fought the hardest.
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