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Came straight on here to say the same thing, how bleeping cringe. Who would stoop this low for an #adbleeping cringeView attachment 2575309
What would they say he does?a nobody doesn't go on strictly
I’m sorry you experienced that. I wish it was more known the damage these childhood experiences have in adulthood. I didn’t even realise what I experienced was childhood trauma until after I had my own child and started to question how my parents could be the way they were with us. And I expect there are many adults with the ‘didn’t do us any harm’ attitude don’t realise it actually did do them harm.I thinks narcs do struggle to bond with their child and anybody tbh. My mum makes everything about her! She expects the full red carpet the works for any occasion! She once decided to fall out with me one year for not buying her a Valentine’s Day card no present was ever good enough. Everyone jumps through hoops for her. She would smirk when she finally got me in tears or feeling guilty for how“bad” I made HER feel. She beat me, gaslight me, emotionally abused me, controlled me made me feel worthless. Yet puts a mask on to the outside world. I’m not in no way suggesting Louise will be like that, my mother is an extreme narc , but the point is narcs don’t have that normal maternal bond which is so sad and its felt long into adult hood by the child
Ugh!!WHEN HEA PULLS THIS FACE
the last few days have been awful to see. I am seriously considering leaving this thread, as much as I enjoy the chat on here and the really funny posts. I’ve already deleted their profiles from my search history (I don’t follow them) to avoid looking at their latest posts. I’ve felt so much anger towards the way they have treated their child, and the amount of support and enablers they have despite her showing her true colours time and time again if people just thought about it for 5 minutes.She’s barmy isn’t she. Poor Leo. That little boy is going to end up really damaged by his deranged mother and his angry father. They’re devoid of personality and terrible parents. The content from the last few days is mad and just when you think they can’t go any lower, they do.
I agree with you completely, you don’t realise until you have your own children and couldn’t imagine behaving the same way. My daughter is about the same age I was (a child) when I wanted things to end (won’t state as don’t want to trigger anyone) but I ended up in hospital and Iv found it really quite hard recently. Of course I was labelled dramatic, drama queen & attention seeking and forced to give the dr who tried to help me false reasons for it otherwise I was emotionally blackmailed with my younger siblings who I practically brought up been taken away and living s horrible life in care if I didn’t and I’d never see them again.I’m sorry you experienced that. I wish it was more known the damage these childhood experiences have in adulthood. I didn’t even realise what I experienced was childhood trauma until after I had my own child and started to question how my parents could be the way they were with us. And I expect there are many adults with the ‘didn’t do us any harm’ attitude don’t realise it actually did do them harm.
And I absolutely believe Louise is also a victim of CEN and it’s the root cause of most of her issues. She is too self absorbed though to realise none of this started with Leo. It’s just the next phase of her own childhood trauma. I don’t have much sympathy for her until she wakes up and recognises she’s just repeating the generational trauma cycle. We know a lot more now than our parents generation did and I think she’s probably choosing to ignore it given the amount of research she does on the conditions she actually wants to have and prefers the attention and validation instead. But it will never be enough.
So unfortunately I think Louise will be exactly like you have described, except for the beating. I can’t see her being physical but who really knows. I just wish emotional abuse and neglect was taken as seriously as physical abuse and neglect given the lifelong harm it causes.
There was a petition in 2019 asking the government to stop influencers using their children in ads, but it was "rejected because the petition wasn't clear on what it wanted the government to do" I mean it's pretty obvious what the petition is asking for! Maybe it's time for a new one. We could do with someone that comes from a legal background that can give advice on what to say in a petition so it can't get rejected for the reason above.the last few days have been awful to see. I am seriously considering leaving this thread, as much as I enjoy the chat on here and the really funny posts. I’ve already deleted their profiles from my search history (I don’t follow them) to avoid looking at their latest posts. I’ve felt so much anger towards the way they have treated their child, and the amount of support and enablers they have despite her showing her true colours time and time again if people just thought about it for 5 minutes.
I know they are not going to change based on a few ‘troll’ comments but I had hoped with time more and more of their followers would see them for who they really are but it’s not happening and it’s frustrating. And they are a needle in the haystack when looking at the bigger parenting influencer culture.
I want to research if there are any uk campaigners trying to bring more rights into law for these influencer kids. One state in America has recently passed law similar to child actors which is a start. But that’s ultimately why i feel so enraged is seeing these children being used day in day out to make money for their parents.
It will change eventually as the early influencer kids are starting to speak out (teen vogue article below) but in the meantime more and more kids are going to end up damaged whilst we sit and watch it happen in front of our eyes. And maybe in ten years time all those hundreds of people enabling louise might finally look back and wonder why we ever allowed it to happen. But it will be too late for little Leo and his peers by then.
Influencer Parents and The Kids Who Had Their Childhood Made Into Content
“Nothing they do now is going to take back the years of work I had to put in.”www.teenvogue.com
I don’t know much about what’s needed to set up a petition. It’s clear to us but maybe it needed more specific points of law.There was a petition in 2019 asking the government to stop influencers using their children in ads, but it was "rejected because the petition wasn't clear on what it wanted the government to do" I mean it's pretty obvious isn't it, just ban the use of kids in influencer ads. Maybe it's time for a new petition.
This was the old one
Archived Petition: Laws to protect the children of social media ‘Influencers’ from exploitation.
There is currently no legislation in place that protects the rights of children who’s lives are featured on social media, namely the children of ‘influencers’ who have scant regard for their children’s privacy, and in some cases their welfare. Child actors and models are afforded such protection.petition.parliament.uk
I’ll be sad to see you go ( if you decide to) because you speak so much sense but I can honestly relate-they are sickeningthe last few days have been awful to see. I am seriously considering leaving this thread, as much as I enjoy the chat on here and the really funny posts. I’ve already deleted their profiles from my search history (I don’t follow them) to avoid looking at their latest posts. I’ve felt so much anger towards the way they have treated their child, and the amount of support and enablers they have despite her showing her true colours time and time again if people just thought about it for 5 minutes.
I know they are not going to change based on a few ‘troll’ comments but I had hoped with time more and more of their followers would see them for who they really are but it’s not happening and it’s frustrating. And they are a needle in the haystack when looking at the bigger parenting influencer culture.
I want to research if there are any uk campaigners trying to bring more rights into law for these influencer kids. One state in America has recently passed law similar to child actors which is a start. But that’s ultimately why i feel so enraged is seeing these children being used day in day out to make money for their parents.
It will change eventually as the early influencer kids are starting to speak out (teen vogue article below) but in the meantime more and more kids are going to end up damaged whilst we sit and watch it happen in front of our eyes. And maybe in ten years time all those hundreds of people enabling louise might finally look back and wonder why we ever allowed it to happen. But it will be too late for little Leo and his peers by then.
Influencer Parents and The Kids Who Had Their Childhood Made Into Content
“Nothing they do now is going to take back the years of work I had to put in.”www.teenvogue.com
I’ll probably just try hanging around on here but avoiding their own posts so I don’t have to see their ridiculous enablers who sometimes frustrate me more for not seeing it!!I’ll be sad to see you go ( if you decide to) because you speak so much sense but I can honestly relate-they are sickening