But she is asking for a discount code and will be creating content she is likely will earn money from engagement across her social channels so win win both ways
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She's back on Twitter.
insincere and redundant
Just seen her stories about no-one turning up for her at school events as her dad didnât care.
I know her childhood was horrible but she seems to have so much resentment towards him. Has she ever spoken about how difficult it was for her dad losing his wife. I know he moved someone else in very quickly but it could have been a trauma response.. being scared of being alone and or bringing up a child alone? Was it the right choice? No. But she always bangs on about not being perfect and having bad days. She never seems to take into consideration that he lost his wife.
Liam wasnât a permanent fixture in her life when she fell pregnant and so would have been a big change for Darcy. Something that wasnât planned? But thatâs ok.
I know her childhood was horrible but she seems to have so much resentment towards him. Has she ever spoken about how difficult it was for her dad losing his wife. I know he moved someone else in very quickly but it could have been a trauma response.. being scared of being alone and or bringing up a child alone? Was it the right choice? No. But she always bangs on about not being perfect and having bad days. She never seems to take into consideration that he lost his wife.
Liam wasnât a permanent fixture in her life when she fell pregnant and so would have been a big change for Darcy. Something that wasnât planned? But thatâs ok.
Jeez Louise (literally) this sort of tit is what therapy is for
Sheâs possibly even hoping Joules will â#giftâ her the whole order for free.
Jesus Christ! Youâre not the only child to experience this.
my dad died when I was very young. My mum had to provide on her own, she had to work full time, no such thing as popping out for your childrenâs bits and bobs back in the day. She could never attend anything. I walked home from school alone, I made my own lunches from when I was 7. Do I hold it against her, no. She did what she could, it was a different time. Ffs.
I wanted to say something about those stories too.
It wasnât unusual in the 90âs for parents not to be at sports day or plays or for kids not to do loads of extra curriculars. In my peer group the majority of families had both parents working even if mum was just part time in school hours and workplaces then werenât as flexible as they are now regarding time off to attend school events(Iâm not saying all are now just that many are) and people werenât working from home etc. My parents never came to stuff. It was just normal for that time and she would do well to work on understanding what parts of her childhood were the norm.
I would love to know what her dad thinks about the stuff she posts about him, Of course her childhood was difficult but she seems to want him in her life yet have free reign to lash out very publicly when she wants instead of working things through with him privately,
Iâm sorry for your loss
She does say in a later slide she doesnât judge mothers who have to work and canât attend things etc. but then the screenshot I posted, sheâs holding it against her dad for having to work? Doesnât make any sense
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Also agree as a child of the 90s I canât remember parents ever attending anything, they were working, that was just normal
Itâs like watching a car crash.
I think her dad is probably a lovely man who was taken in at a time when his life had been turned upside down. He probably feels awful about what happened to Louise. The woman was clearly a narcissist and if it wasnât him, she would have found another vulnerable man to prey upon.
My parents didnât come to things during school hours, but they worked full time. They came to my dance shows, but my dad would mock me and complain about taking me to one class a week because he had been working all day. Having two parents doesnât make for a well adjusted adult because those parents have to be able to parent in the first place. My relationship with my parents is complex.
She really needs to go to therapy and stop posting things online for the world to see that she may regret.
I think her dad is probably a lovely man who was taken in at a time when his life had been turned upside down. He probably feels awful about what happened to Louise. The woman was clearly a narcissist and if it wasnât him, she would have found another vulnerable man to prey upon.
My parents didnât come to things during school hours, but they worked full time. They came to my dance shows, but my dad would mock me and complain about taking me to one class a week because he had been working all day. Having two parents doesnât make for a well adjusted adult because those parents have to be able to parent in the first place. My relationship with my parents is complex.
She really needs to go to therapy and stop posting things online for the world to see that she may regret.
GO
TO THERAPY Quit airing this all out on the internet and go talk it out with a professional FFS.
I think she also fails to acknowledge that she went to a fancy private school and so the chances were much higher of there being stay at home parents etc (of the other children) that would be able to attend all of these things. Much like she can now do for her own private school children. Itâs a different position to the standard family with parents working, less likely to be in control of their own hours etc, at your typical state school.
I doubt both parents of each child were there at all these things sheâs remembering. Iâd wager at least one was working. And then her dad was the one bringing the cash in, of course the chances would be higher that heâd be at work?
I donât see her complaining about all the benefits she had and still has from him having worked and made good money, which she very much reaps. Yes of course as a child she wouldnât have thought of it that way, but sheâs thirty bleeping nine years old
I doubt both parents of each child were there at all these things sheâs remembering. Iâd wager at least one was working. And then her dad was the one bringing the cash in, of course the chances would be higher that heâd be at work?
I donât see her complaining about all the benefits she had and still has from him having worked and made good money, which she very much reaps. Yes of course as a child she wouldnât have thought of it that way, but sheâs thirty bleeping nine years old
Even if her dad was the biggest prick going when she was younger sheâs openly said they have a relationship and sheâs tried to mend what they have. If they didnât talk at all and she completely cut him off then I could sort of understand publicly berating him.
To say all of this for the world to see, including other relatives, her friends, his friends, neighbours, acquaintances, everyone this man knows, when she knows full well heâd be able to read it, is disgusting. No matter what heâs done to you, you canât in the same breath go to the Chelsea Flower Show with him one month and the next tell the whole world how abusive and nasty and horrible he was.
You canât have it both ways Louise, either you hate him and want the world to know, or youâve mended the relationship and publicly you get along with him.
He must be heartbroken knowing how she truly feels, and the fact she tells the world, is just so unnecessary.
To say all of this for the world to see, including other relatives, her friends, his friends, neighbours, acquaintances, everyone this man knows, when she knows full well heâd be able to read it, is disgusting. No matter what heâs done to you, you canât in the same breath go to the Chelsea Flower Show with him one month and the next tell the whole world how abusive and nasty and horrible he was.
You canât have it both ways Louise, either you hate him and want the world to know, or youâve mended the relationship and publicly you get along with him.
He must be heartbroken knowing how she truly feels, and the fact she tells the world, is just so unnecessary.
If he was that bad, then youâd cut him out your life for good. She wonât because he has a few quid.
My dad worked abroad for most of my childhood so I only saw him every 3 months. My mum did some school cleaning and dinner lady jobs which fitted in around our school times. My mum came to things she could, but didnât drive, so often couldnât get to things, or we couldnât go to clubs that were not a short walk away. Itâs just the hand youâre dealt. Iâm about the same age as her, not going to let it ruin or define my life at nearly 40.
She desperately needs therapy.
My dad worked abroad for most of my childhood so I only saw him every 3 months. My mum did some school cleaning and dinner lady jobs which fitted in around our school times. My mum came to things she could, but didnât drive, so often couldnât get to things, or we couldnât go to clubs that were not a short walk away. Itâs just the hand youâre dealt. Iâm about the same age as her, not going to let it ruin or define my life at nearly 40.
She desperately needs therapy.
Where were her Mumâs family after her Mum died? Surely they still spent time with their grandaughter and why couldnât they attend school events etc?
My parents never went to any school events as they were always working and it didnât bother me.
She goes on and on but Iâve always had the impression she favours Darcey over Pearl so wonder how she would feel if when Pearl was an adult she started posting online for all to see about how she felt left out by Louise.
My parents never went to any school events as they were always working and it didnât bother me.
She goes on and on but Iâve always had the impression she favours Darcey over Pearl so wonder how she would feel if when Pearl was an adult she started posting online for all to see about how she felt left out by Louise.
My dad worked and was often away on business, sometimes for weeks at a time. Iâm not sure he would have even been able to find my school! My mum didnât work until my youngest of 3 siblings started secondary school, and then it was only part-time, teaching English as a foreign language to adults.
Seeing as how we were all at different schools at one point, she never really had time to go to our events, as sometimes we went home for lunch and she also had to do food shopping, meal prep and housework.
I think she came to see my class play when I was 9, and we always used to go to the school fĂȘtes as a family.
Seeing as how we were all at different schools at one point, she never really had time to go to our events, as sometimes we went home for lunch and she also had to do food shopping, meal prep and housework.
I think she came to see my class play when I was 9, and we always used to go to the school fĂȘtes as a family.
My dad didn't show up to my graduation because he had a holiday coming up 3 days later and the 20 minute drive to my school and 2 hour ceremony would've been too much of a "hassle" for him (his words lol). Sure, it hurt when I was 16 and my best friend's dad hugged me instead, but now, 13 years later, I just don't care anymore and don't hold it against him. What's the point?
She probably holds on to so much because she still has so much anger that she never dealt with. I agree, therapy would do wonders for her.
She probably holds on to so much because she still has so much anger that she never dealt with. I agree, therapy would do wonders for her.
Has she ever spoken about what he was like before her mum died? She speaks so highly of her mum so she must have seen something good in him.
All the things she says about him may be well.. but sheâs got a relationship with him why humiliate him like that? Speak to friends and families about how you feel. Do we need know this?
She could have just said how thankful she is that she can attend so many events. My little one isnât even a year old yet but Iâm already dreading all the things Iâm going to miss when I go back to work part time.
I think she overthinks every part of her childhood and thinks it wasnât normal when it actually was. Itâs like she likes to add to the list of ways her dad failed her.
No one is perfect Louise and there will be people who know you in real life criticising your parenting.
People in glass houses and all that..
All the things she says about him may be well.. but sheâs got a relationship with him why humiliate him like that? Speak to friends and families about how you feel. Do we need know this?
She could have just said how thankful she is that she can attend so many events. My little one isnât even a year old yet but Iâm already dreading all the things Iâm going to miss when I go back to work part time.
I think she overthinks every part of her childhood and thinks it wasnât normal when it actually was. Itâs like she likes to add to the list of ways her dad failed her.
No one is perfect Louise and there will be people who know you in real life criticising your parenting.
People in glass houses and all that..
Isnât Auntie Judith her mumâs sister? Wasnât there some family drama involving a court case and property recently, some people here speculated that her son may have been renting from Louise and Louise kicked him out after he got divorced or something.
Louise has every right to be angry with her dad because thatâs how she feels and her inner child probably does feel abandoned and forgotten about, but publishing it online is not healthy vulnerability! Despite claiming to have healed, she quite clearly hasnât. Sheâs probably too scared to deal with it in therapy but okay with posting it online. She should take her dad to therapy.
Her image of her mum is idealised because she wasnât in Louiseâs life long enough to make any significant mistakes - if you know what I mean.
I do wonder what her dad and other family members would think if they saw this being published online. Itâs hard not to see it as manipulation for engagement though.
Her image of her mum is idealised because she wasnât in Louiseâs life long enough to make any significant mistakes - if you know what I mean.
I do wonder what her dad and other family members would think if they saw this being published online. Itâs hard not to see it as manipulation for engagement though.