In her defence on my first girl I went mad and bought a bow for her head. At the time I thought it was lovely, now obviously I know better. On the first we all make mad mistakes. I brought my first daughter as a newborn to a christening in Dec and brought no coat!!! Wanted to show off the dress. I absolutely cringe every time I think about it now. Absolutely clueless and I thought I knew everything. So I can forgive some if the madness buying of useless crap.