It’s a bit concerning to see how upset she gets after a few nights of unrest. It’s not even a week & generally the girls have been quite good up to now except for the odd bout of illness. She has roughly 18 more months of teething to deal with. If she’s struggling this much already she needs to have a chat with her GP about her stage of mind & maybe speak with someone to learn some coping mechanisms. Moping about the house feeling sorry for herself will only make things worse. It’s important to get out for some fresh air & try keep busy to keep the tiredness at bay.
If she’s still thinking about the remaining embryo she really needs to remind herself of these few nights, the effect it has had on her & how she would cope with another because even when the girls are much older she won’t have the luxury of being able to go back to bed. There will be so much else to be doing. Uniforms, lunches, everyone out the door on time regardless of how much sleep has been had, she couldn’t even manage that for her couple of days back at work.
It’s not easy, there will never be a good time to have another & there’s never any guarantee of a good sleeper.
I hope she sees this because I’m saying this out of genuine concern.