100% agree with you. When you say ‘these things are the sum total of the amount of pressure you let them become’I could understand that if you were organising like say a 50th or an anniversary or wedding afters, but a kids party? What’s there to organise? These things are the sum total of the amount of pressure you let them become. What’s there to organise for a five year old only a cake and a few balloons and let them run about outside or throw on a movie, few chicken nuggets and pizza be grand. everything else is extra. I don’t know... maybe I’m old fashioned but I don’t like the way it’s going for kids parties. Such unnecessary pressure on parents who are already living hand to mouth and feeling they can’t keep up
I hear the children in school yards for years and years and hands down a bouncy castle and some sweets or chocolate are their favourites; the rest is utter pressure and letting yourself get wrapped until take home bags presents thank you cards and all this beep …