Totally, you could be 30 years married and have the shittiest relationship ever. Doesn’t mean anything to me. Lily is the type of person who puts zero effort into maintaining her relationship. She takes it for granted, just bc Rich once pursued her when they were like 18 (so she thinks he’ll always feel lucky to have her) and then her family let him live with them rent free for years (so she thinks he owes her). Not to forget she gave him children! In her head, she’s done her bit and the relationship is now set for life. But when has she EVER actually done something nice for him? All she does is refusing to share her food with him, refusing to let him have a work desk in his own house, and making him shave her vulva and clip her toenails,