Lilandlife #5 “Am I the problem?” Yes, yes you are.

[Nosymum]

Sorry Lil, but I'd agree View attachment 2757091

You just know the children’s behaviour was awful! Edit to add that of course children do misbehave but I bet they did nothing to try and parent the situation.

 

[AdApathy]

Well if it isn't Isla it's either Abbie or Hallie and actually it's none of our business Lil so maybe stop slagging your kids off online?

 

[Cjh78]

No wonder one of the girls are struggling imagine what they are seeing at home with that much tension and anger between parents. Lil always moany about her ‘awful’ life. Hope she pays for therapy for daughter as happily as she pays for it for herself.

I feel sorry for the poor Brother who has lived with them for the past couple of years and has to put up with them!

 

[Your Moms Chest Hair]

I know he is probably grateful they’re giving him a roof over his head, but surely whilst the house is in state of a renovation they would give him some sort of privacy and not have his “bedroom” as the girls play room

 

[losingmymindagain]

So why doesn’t she just do that. She must make an income from social media. Just carry on with that and looking after the kids she has got without another baby. I get the need to prioritise yourself but you get more time to do that as they get older. No judgement from me for being a SAHM with a side hustle. She’s got a good life. In my opinion her mental health would benefit from actually moving her life on it just want want want all the time

I think you’ve summed it up perfectly, she really would benefit from moving her life on, they all would. She seems stuck in a cycle of her own perceived unhappiness. It’s almost like she wants another baby to be able to press rewind on their whole life/relationship and hope that this time around it all plays out differently. She’s stuck and unable to push forwards, because she isn’t happy with how things have played out…..if that makes sense?

 

[Your Moms Chest Hair]

“I just want to help her”

We all have a suggestion, have a look at your toxic relationship and see how that could (most likely) be impacting her!! And again, why does she feel the need to share her daughters struggles before even seeking help other than a subscription
That’s right, it takes it away from selfish Lil.

 

[losingmymindagain]

I was horrified by her stories today. Has anyone else noticed the pattern? She has some moany stories about how shit her life is, how horrible her kids are, cries about it all to her girlfriends over yet another midweek lunch out and then obviously feels all the guilt so then posts evening stories of her playing the doting, patient mum 🥱

 

[Woodoo]

I remember when Hallie was born, Lil saying something along the lines of Hallie turned out to be just what their relationship needed… that didn’t last long!!!

 

[Your Moms Chest Hair]

I find it absolutely unbelievable that this woman was moaning just a few weeks ago about the precious little time she gets to herself. In the last couple of weeks alone she's had a girls weekend away, a trip to the theatre, several meals out, gym quite a lot and countless beauty treatments. And she still moans!!! She's not got a clue. I class myself as very lucky to have a lot of family help with my kids and stuff but I mostly use it to work!!! And I do get nights out etc but this would be like 6m to a years worth. Not to mention how she's affording it. Jeez.

I find it really bizarre brands choose to work with someone that sucks the life out of things.

 

[Nosymum]

No wonder one of the girls are struggling imagine what they are seeing at home with that much tension and anger between parents. Lil always moany about her ‘awful’ life. Hope she pays for therapy for daughter as happily as she pays for it for herself.

 

[Fairypop]

I know it’s been mentioned before but I just can’t believe Hallie has a dummy in the same story about her starting school!

 

[unicornsandmermaids]

First blow dry - first time you’ve brushed her hair

 

[georgijane]

I’m sure when she’s telling the therapist that she screamed and shouted at her kids in the morning the therapist will ask why and what is her response to that? I woke up late, didn’t do pack lunches, didn’t get the uniform out, didn’t take breakfast stuff out etc etc. How can she not see it’s her? She’s the adult. I bet those kids wonder what they’ve done wrong half the time.

 

[Fmf17]

Why does she not make lunch the night before? Doesn’t everyone do this?

 

[blondegirl26]

Life's shit but on the next post she's talking about her fake tan ..

 

[Horseyhelen]

Moaning about the price of a food shop and then a few hours later posting about posh chick peas thay cost £4 a jar instead of 45p a tin

 

[ohdoris]

Hallie and that damn dummy… she’s SUCH a lazy parent!

That child will be starting full time school in 3 months & Lil is talking about her napping in the day & lets her have her dummy all the time. They are both in for a hard time come September.

 

[Bobbleowl90]

When my house is a mess I feel anxious. I hate an untidy or cluttered house. I can’t imagine living like that constantly! The kids will definitely feel the effects.

 

[Catlady1]

Reel exploiting your child getting dressed which you are trying to also use to show you are a great mum despite admitting to shouting and screaming at them on a regular basis. Leave off showing your youngest daughter in a towel and her undies then you might look better Lil.

 

[mojo-jojo]

Looks like it could be a Mean Girls weekend away - Lil, Emma and Carowhine!

The holy trinity of Instahun bores. I do not understand how any of these three can make a living out of “influencing”. There is not a single aspirational thing about them. Dull, dull, dull.