Lifewithjadeedwards #4 Dry as ...., literally

[urghmummybloggers]

My worry is other people messaging her validating that it’s normal. It’s not.
This is so harsh but she shouldn’t have had a child if this is how she copes. She’s going to create huge issues. I’ve seen lockdown babies where parents 100% abided by the rules and there’s no nice way of saying this but they are odd and antisocial. There’s no reason now to not socialise ur child. I took my daughter to 5 baby classes a week. We do soft play, visits to other children’s houses, grandparent visits, trips to the library. It’s not money for her as she spends a fortune on utter crap. U have to put a child first which means getting over ur own issues. She can’t do that. Genuinely she’s verging on being an unfit mother

My son has been in intensive care since birth - id give my right leg to be able to take him home and even sit in a Costa and go for a walk.
I Don’t know why people are gassing her that it’s normal behaviour - it’s very disordered and how the HV hasn’t made a referral yet I don’t know. Why she hasn’t taken steps herself to see this is massively unhealthy and make sure her child has the best with their mums obsessions and mental health being looked at is beyond me too.

 

[bbvf]

This is worrying. I get the nerves on the first few trips - especially as a first time mother. You can get a little overwhelmed if you’re out solo for the first time and they start crying.
But then you get used to it and think if anyone has a problem - it’s a baby!!!!!!
You have to suck it up and do things that will help your baby and their development. Do I enjoy singing the wheels on the bus twenty times with a room full of toddlers? No - but my baby does so I do it!!!

 

[Gill275]

This is worrying. I get the nerves on the first few trips - especially as a first time mother. You can get a little overwhelmed if you’re out solo for the first time and they start crying.
But then you get used to it and think if anyone has a problem - it’s a baby!!!!!!
You have to suck it up and do things that will help your baby and their development. Do I enjoy singing the wheels on the bus twenty times with a room full of toddlers? No - but my baby does so I do it!!!

100% agree with this!!! It’s totally normal to be a bit nervous and apprehensive but I’m same as u- it’s a baby and quite frankly we all were one so if my daughter is kicking off then I deal with it but I’m not so stressed I can’t cope or won’t go out again. She’s 100% gna be one of these parents with a dummy rammed in 24/7 so he can’t make a noise and an iPad/ phone constantly in front of him (can u set YouTube to beige colours only?!!) so he doesn’t utter a word.

 

[bbvf]

100% agree with this!!! It’s totally normal to be a bit nervous and apprehensive but I’m same as u- it’s a baby and quite frankly we all were one so if my daughter is kicking off then I deal with it but I’m not so stressed I can’t cope or won’t go out again. She’s 100% gna be one of these parents with a dummy rammed in 24/7 so he can’t make a noise and an iPad/ phone constantly in front of him (can u set YouTube to beige colours only?!!) so he doesn’t utter a word.

Which she did yesterday to put his coat on. She needs some help and that’s not said in a horrible way - she genuinely needs help because otherwise she will never leave the house and her child will suffer for it.
My little one loves to swim - personally not a fan and not too comfortable with the old love handles -but it makes her laugh and she loves it, so in the pool we go

 

[Eenymeenyminymo]

She’s honestly got issues.
She didn’t know babies did more than sleep and drink more before 12 months old?!?

 

[Justnosey100]

She’s honestly got issues.
She didn’t know babies did more than sleep and drink more before 12 months old?!?

I always knew she was completely thick and went into having a baby with zero knowledge but this is a whole new level of stupid! She is such an odd character, does she live under a rock?!
I also find it so odd that they longed for a baby for so long, yet she’s so clueless. You’d think in all of that time she would have been reading, researching and paying attention to other babies etc.
Baffled

 

[paula1234]

How did she want a baby for so long and have no idea about anything to do with babies? I know when you’re a first time mum things are new and overwhelming but is she having a laugh. A new born for a year thick as mince

 

[bbvf]

I genuinely am worried for her. I’m a first time mother, haven’t got a clue with half of it but guess what - I read and ask! Because it doesn’t come with an instruction manual. She terrifies me. Has she actually started weaning yet?

 

[Peachylite]

She’s the weirdest person I’ve ever come across! Who just thinks that babies sleep and drink milk for a whole 12 months?!? She not normal! I feel like maybe she says a lot for Instagram and for people to engage with her moronic stories, cos no one can be that stupid can they??

 

[Fluffypants]

She’s the weirdest person I’ve ever come across! Who just thinks that babies sleep and drink milk for a whole 12 months?!? She not normal! I feel like maybe she says a lot for Instagram and for people to engage with her moronic stories, cos no one can be that stupid can they??

I wonder this too ….. is it a ploy for engagement?! It doesn’t add up how she is struggling so much as a new mum but can go to events and flog the lumi sh*t?!

 

[ChubClubThug]

I'm not buying it. She comes from a fairly large family where she has a nan, a mum, a sister, lots of cousins, aunts etc. Are we supposed to believe not one of them has asked about the baby or said anything? I think she's absolutely loopy but a lot of it is put on for attention. Makes me wonder if her Instagram is hidden from people who know her. If you message her and she doesn't like what you're saying she goes nuts and blocks you

 

[Wowwwwwwwww]

I'm not buying it. She comes from a fairly large family where she has a nan, a mum, a sister, lots of cousins, aunts etc. Are we supposed to believe not one of them has asked about the baby or said anything? I think she's absolutely loopy but a lot of it is put on for attention. Makes me wonder if her Instagram is hidden from people who know her. If you message her and she doesn't like what you're saying she goes nuts and blocks you

100% this
She is a huge airheaded bint but, the majority of her pathetic WTAF moments are attention seeking. She’s a WorLdwinD

 

[#ad#aff]

I can’t believe she seriously wanted to name her child COAST or VALLEY this girl’s list of baby names reads like a geography textbook

 

[Justnosey100]

I can’t believe she seriously wanted to name her child COAST or VALLEY this girl’s list of baby names reads like a geography textbook

Outdoorsy names for a baby that never sees daylight!

 

[Byewiggy]

Was the problem they had that she just didn't want to have sex!?

 

[Justnosey100]

No IVF due to the problem they had… I could be being completely naive but how does that make sense?

 

[ChubClubThug]

I can’t believe she seriously wanted to name her child COAST or VALLEY this girl’s list of baby names reads like a geography textbook

Omg they live in the South Wales "Valleys" can you imagine

 

[longtimelurker86]

bleeping VALLEY I am howling

 

[Ifyouknowyouknow]

No IVF due to pthe problem they had… I could be being completely naive but how does that make sense?

She has said not eligible - so I am thinking that means not able to have it for free. You have to meet certain criterias ro get it for free which can vary from area to area. If paying there isn’t a circumstance I can think of where it wouldn’t be possible if you are still able to concieve naturally (which I am assumed is what happened with River by what she’s said).

 

[Tulip lady]

Why has she covered the babies face on her stories of his newborn ??? But she shows him in photos all the time ????? It doesn’t make sense