I don’t think there’s any evidence to show that she’s been negative to Oakley directly about school. Unless he is popping on to insta to read her updates, he’s probably non the wiser. He presents as a happy and confident child, speech delay or not. He’s obviously loved and engages with peers well based on what she has posted. He will probably love school! I’m emotional about my child starting school because it’s the end of an era. It’s just a reminder that they are growing up and I find that difficult as o know that they won’t always need us so much and as much as that’s really rewarding to see... it’s also emotional, as life then becomes less flexible. You can’t take them out of pre school to the beach just because you feel like it, and for many people it’s the end of holidays abroad etc if that’s what they have been used to. I completely get why she is feeling like this, and don’t see anything wrong with her kids having a ‘leisurely’ life style - before thins become more scheduled.