More to the story I assume. I am someone who is very compassionate and understanding of mental health issues as I suffered myself. I do have complete empathy if she did what was best at time for her kids. I don't imagine it was frivolous and easy so I don't feel comfortable snarking on that. If she gave up custody so she could move countries or marry a guy who didn't want kids then yes. Who knows maybe the fathers had better lawyers and more money? It's a strange situation and I couldn't imagine doing that myself but I think there is alot of context missing and she won't share that. So sad boys don't see each other more often though, surely each father would encourage a closer relationship and more time spent together even if she's not involved? That tells me there are huge legal and custody issues. I don't get why she paints herself as a solo mumma supporting her kids by herself and single mum life is so hard (just like Tarah) if both sons live permanently with each father. Therefore wouldn't she be paying maintenance to them? Or does she expect the dads to pay when she has them? Make it make sense!!!! If she is playing the mental health card though I can't say she is in a sound state if she is living with Tarah, girl is nearly 40, get it together, get a therapist and a mental health plan and stick to it. You are not a young mum at 30 Crystal. I had 4 kids by 23 (yes all to same father), had a mortgage, kept an impeccable house, no childcare, worked 3 days a week and things were tight (interest rates were through the roof). Why does she think 30 is young??? Botox obviously going to her brain cells! Oh I just remembered how she ripped people off whilst still operating her business, I forgot that part. How the hell does she have the credit line to open a business in Tamworth? It's a store front isn't it? So rent? Overheads? Staff? How does she maintain Tamworth if she is living in 'Byron' and at Dream-world being a working mumma? I smell money???? Bank of mum and dad? Fathers paid her off for full custody of kids??