Found her! Nanci L Danison.
Not sure if I'm allowed to link but search Create a New Reality: Move Beyond Law of Attraction Theory on Amazon for the book. (Below I've reposted key snippets from a few reviews in case anyone finds them helpful too).
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We are not what we think, we think what we are. Our reality is formed from projections of deeply held beliefs, an internal locus of control creates our moment by moment experiences.
Key Point 1: We manifest beliefs – not thoughts!
Immediately we are presented with a sharp deviation from the fundamental precept behind LoA. And this has some implications. We can’t for instance simply chant affirmations and expect results. More work is needed! We have to identify deeply held beliefs, many of which might be subconscious, and then somehow change them!
A common impediment for many people, I believe, is changing beliefs regarding the fundamental nature of reality and our relationship to it. Every second of every day our senses condition us to believe we live in a world composed of discrete physical objects occupying a three dimensional space, the dynamic nature of which is governed by physical forces.
There is no physical matter, no literal physical forces, and no time and space. The world we apprehend is in reality nothing more than energy masquerading as physical stuff, essentially energy calmed down to a lower vibrational frequency, forming an energy density we perceive in the form of physical objects. Not only that, there are no literal physical forces.
Anyone basing their conception of reality on what their senses tell them will struggle to make the requisite changes of perspective required for successful manifesting. Which leads neatly to the next key point.
Key Point 2: Intention is the single most vital component of successful manifesting.
Intention is the firm expectation of getting the desired result, and pivotal to this is the belief that one has the inherent power to actually create these changes. Moreover, manifesting will likely be confined to trivial results unless one believes in what humans would regard as ‘miracles’.
It is clear that the universe does not contain definite physical laws that are metaphysically immutable. They are highly malleable, and ripe for manipulation.
Key Point 3: Law of Attraction Theories are BS.
I would nonetheless love to magically conjure up piles of cash at will. So why precisely does manifesting not work this way? Primarily because it has to fit in with the reason we chose our current incarnation in the first place. Requires the cooperation of my higher self.
Key Point 4: Mental visualizations and human emotions are generally ineffectual.
The basic idea here is to clear one’s mind of all contents which originate from the biological human part. What is left, by default, is the LB soul. That is when manifesting is at its most potent. If one attempts to manifest whilst the human is in the way, the signal tends to get jammed, or there is crosstalk or something. So clear your mind, hold the intention to manifest whatever it is you want in your mind (without articulation) and voila – your manifestation should manifest. But not necessarily immediately.
Thoughts are not “magnetic”; the objects of one’s desire neither gravitate to you magnetically, nor through vibration, nor through some emotional component. She writes "manifesting has no emotional component at all. It is an entirely intellectual, mental, spiritual ability… Whatever our emotions are, we need to get them out of our way in order to concentrate on exercising our manifesting power.”
We souls do not have to facilitate our natural connection to Source, whether by thinking good thoughts or feeling good or otherwise, because we are Source. We have never been separated. We have no bridge to gap. We are connected, one to the other, because we are all one entity.
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This is the original NDE video I watched btw, for anyone interested.
Not sure if I'm allowed to link but search Create a New Reality: Move Beyond Law of Attraction Theory on Amazon for the book. (Below I've reposted key snippets from a few reviews in case anyone finds them helpful too).
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We are not what we think, we think what we are. Our reality is formed from projections of deeply held beliefs, an internal locus of control creates our moment by moment experiences.
Key Point 1: We manifest beliefs – not thoughts!
Immediately we are presented with a sharp deviation from the fundamental precept behind LoA. And this has some implications. We can’t for instance simply chant affirmations and expect results. More work is needed! We have to identify deeply held beliefs, many of which might be subconscious, and then somehow change them!
A common impediment for many people, I believe, is changing beliefs regarding the fundamental nature of reality and our relationship to it. Every second of every day our senses condition us to believe we live in a world composed of discrete physical objects occupying a three dimensional space, the dynamic nature of which is governed by physical forces.
There is no physical matter, no literal physical forces, and no time and space. The world we apprehend is in reality nothing more than energy masquerading as physical stuff, essentially energy calmed down to a lower vibrational frequency, forming an energy density we perceive in the form of physical objects. Not only that, there are no literal physical forces.
Anyone basing their conception of reality on what their senses tell them will struggle to make the requisite changes of perspective required for successful manifesting. Which leads neatly to the next key point.
Key Point 2: Intention is the single most vital component of successful manifesting.
Intention is the firm expectation of getting the desired result, and pivotal to this is the belief that one has the inherent power to actually create these changes. Moreover, manifesting will likely be confined to trivial results unless one believes in what humans would regard as ‘miracles’.
It is clear that the universe does not contain definite physical laws that are metaphysically immutable. They are highly malleable, and ripe for manipulation.
Key Point 3: Law of Attraction Theories are BS.
I would nonetheless love to magically conjure up piles of cash at will. So why precisely does manifesting not work this way? Primarily because it has to fit in with the reason we chose our current incarnation in the first place. Requires the cooperation of my higher self.
Key Point 4: Mental visualizations and human emotions are generally ineffectual.
The basic idea here is to clear one’s mind of all contents which originate from the biological human part. What is left, by default, is the LB soul. That is when manifesting is at its most potent. If one attempts to manifest whilst the human is in the way, the signal tends to get jammed, or there is crosstalk or something. So clear your mind, hold the intention to manifest whatever it is you want in your mind (without articulation) and voila – your manifestation should manifest. But not necessarily immediately.
Thoughts are not “magnetic”; the objects of one’s desire neither gravitate to you magnetically, nor through vibration, nor through some emotional component. She writes "manifesting has no emotional component at all. It is an entirely intellectual, mental, spiritual ability… Whatever our emotions are, we need to get them out of our way in order to concentrate on exercising our manifesting power.”
We souls do not have to facilitate our natural connection to Source, whether by thinking good thoughts or feeling good or otherwise, because we are Source. We have never been separated. We have no bridge to gap. We are connected, one to the other, because we are all one entity.
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This is the original NDE video I watched btw, for anyone interested.
I really feel the truth of this.
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. An example might be you want rid of a toxic relationship/person. So on full moon you visualise your life happy, peaceful, full of joy - and this person is absent from it. Some people do rituals like writing down whatever it is and burning this under full moon, burying the ashes in the ground or allowing the wind to take them. 
He asked no what were your real beliefs and which were someone else's words that I had integrated? He then went through each point with me. I honestly feel like that helped me more in that one session then years of therapy with my first therapist. I only wish I had met him sooner.