It really is draining my husbands ex was exactly like lauryn and trust me it causes issues . My husband ended up really poorly mentally and had a breakdown . He gave exactly how much he was told to pay CSA . She still wanted more we always gave what we could on top of the maintenance aswell . She then stopped contact because she gets more money the less he has his child so he had to go court she was pure evil . It caused rows within our home because she would do crazy things out of jealousy towards myself and our new baby and that would then upset me . Like ringing my work trying to get me sacked . Posting malicious lies . Luckily once we got police involved she was done for harassment and I had injunctions in place to stop her contact us at all .
it’s really not good so my heart goes out to Annie . Kyke will be feeling it aswell I know he made a huge mistake but mentally he probably isn’t ok .
It is so
bleeping draining. I know I binned the whole situation with the former Mr Fox but his ex was
bleeping deranged.
They share a child who has behavioural issues and needs medication for further issues. She was perfectly nice to my face but used to moan I bought a house (pre-meeting the former Mr Fox) and made sure it deliberately didn't have enough room for their child. Nope, not true. They broke up when he was 3 and I came into the picture when he was 7 and he's now a teen.
We would have him a couple of times a week for dinner and on more than one occasion she would disappear and try to make us keep him overnight, with no space - my young children/my pregnancy and then newborn, without his medication and expect everyone to adapt to his destructive behaviour. She was not amused when I told her that her child isn't my responsibility anymore than mine are hers and she can either collect him or I'll report her for child abandonment. She never tried it again though.
This was after she purchased a dog and changed it's name to the same as Foxling 2's name. She had demanded the Former Mr Fox live with her 50% of the time to help with their child more, would ring middle of the night to say he needed to go over to sort their child's behaviour etc.
She would also insist on being invited to all family events and would act as though they were a couple. She threw a fit when they put their foot down and stopped inviting her. She never attended or wanted to attend ANY before I was around. The list goes on.
She used to pretend to the school that they were still together, despite it being me doing his homework with him, me and his Dad attending parents evenings and his Dad updating his address details to reflect living at my address, she changed them back to act as though they lived together.
The list goes on. She's now unhappy that he won't move back in with her as I've kicked him out. He said it would disrespectful to me and he wants to repair things with me etc. She thinks I'm really selfish as, after I gave birth and nearly died last year, she wasn't in the first people I text about the baby. She is also trying to convince my ex that the baby, conceived during lockdown when neither of us left the house unless it was together, may not be his because baby looks like me and their child looks like him... seriously.
It is draining. I had so many headaches I thought my eyesight was going since kicking him out I've realised it was just stress.
Some women are
bleeping insane and Beggy Bangles is one of them.