BonsaiBobbi
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Hello. Took a break for a bit. Work schedule mostly.So I am a sex worker, went back to online content recently and in person soon when covid settles. Everyone in my life knows about it- and I think I've said previously, I've been in the public eye for it (If you suspect you might know who I am though, please don't out me on Tattle, haha). My kid knows about it and has done for many years. My kid's school has known for years. When I say everyone knows, yeah.
I'm aware people have talked behind our backs a little, but never once has anyone said anything negative to myself or my child about it. People come into my home and they see a thriving polite and kind child, and a mother who would literally do anything to support them. My child is grateful for what I've done, and knows the facts in an age appropriate way. Any questions are answered honestly. I've worked hard enough to make sure my child will have their own home by the time they are ready to fly the nest.
I'm in the very privileged position of being independent with no direct physical risks to myself or my family due to the way I work- I recognise not everyone has this, but I wish they did!
I actually disagree with Lauren doing sex work WHEN she was carrying baby gel. Do not use an unborn child as a prop in sex work- that's my opinion. But if mother's are safe, saavy and the child is cared for, I don't see why sex work should be an issue as a career choice. I know due to my mental health conditions I would never have made the lifestyle for my child that I did- without SW.
When my youngest's father buggered off (leaving us in debt), I used to sit up all night working for a site whereby men would buy 'credits' to exchange messages with women.
As a cash in hand employee, you were given a profile of a woman. Their age, interests, character etc. A photo was supplied.
It was a tag team thing.
Messages came in. Different people answered - in rotation - pretending to be the character we were given.
Sometimes people were creepy. You'd report that.
Sometimes other people answering would go a bit mad and I'd have to apologise and convince people that the made up person was just a bit damaged and that's why the conversation couldn't move off line.
It is sex work, I suppose. And it is exploitative to all parties.
These lonely men so desperate for sex or friendship they were squandering money. Our bank of impoverished people (I am sure some of my co-workers were not women) desperate for cash.
I used to put in about six hours a night, between 10pm and 4am, then start my day job at 9am.
I don't regret it at all.
I would do anything to feed my children. As long as it wasn't criminal.
I am not ashamed of it.
Got about £150 for 20hrs work.
The deluded men were often spending £150 a week to send messages to a relay team of struggling mums like me.
It is the same sort of model as OnlyFans. Probably the same desperate clients.
I wouldn't put my name, body or contact details out there.
She does. It worries me.
But I agree. There is no shame in sex work. There is shame in the abuse and criminalisation of those involved in it.
She isn't on the streets. People who are largely have mental health and/or substance abuse problems.
We still penalise them and not the people who use them (who might not ALL be that bad. Some of us are probably unwittingly partnered up with them).
I just find the media refusal to acknowledge that OnlyFans is a porn site quite weird.
I am also disgusted that daddy to princess has been milking his tiny albino slug all over his subscriber's sad little faces throughout labour and birth, really sick.
Has Kitty's baby arrived?
I am more excited about this than BYG's delivery!