TravellingPants
Chatty Member
True, she would be a better candidate for IVF if she lost weight to within the guidelines for BMI for that particular procedure. Perhaps that would give them a way of having a baby, perhaps it wouldn’t. Perhaps they have decided they would rather carry on with the life they currently lead and that having a child isn’t as much of a priority if it means drastic changes. I doubt that’s the case when she clearly still feels such visceral emotion about it.But she is refusing to lose weight to help the situation, regardless of who has the issues. A sensitive topic, and it’s not right to point ‘blame’ but by knowing she isn’t entitled to help until she slims down she is halting all support out there. And for that she is stopping him having a chance at fatherhood.
I would challenge the statement that she is denying him the chance to be a parent. He’s a grown man making his own choices. He chooses to stay.