We love you Ben, we do. We love you Ben, we do. We love you Ben, we do. Oh Ben we love you?
Just an FYI Ben, on Tattle there are normal threads where you can have your honest opinion about people (usually negative) however there are also "rave" threads. Where its all positive. If someone is really liked. IMO you should have a rave thread. Honest, down to earth and working hard to make a living to be successful. Good on you, using the family business to its full potential cannot be knocked.
Now back to Kerry... If I had a thread about me I would take on board the comments and think if there's lots of people saying the same things maybe I can take that on board and implement some changes. Comments about looks, weight etc are bitchy. I shall admit that but when you look down your nose and give off an arrogance like you are above and perfect, people will start to pull you up on flaws.
However the ones about attitude and actions are all people noticing the same things and I would try and change. You aren't always going to please everyone but if alot of people are saying the same thing its worth a listen. You will grow bigger and see more success if you are warmer and more open.
Also the mods mute too quickly and no personal questions etc there's no need to comment things like that to people.
Just ignore the comments you don't want to answer. There's no need to jump down peoples throats. Humans are naturally curious beings. If we see something one time or are given some info and something seems different the next time, it's human nature to ask what's happening. You're well within your rights to have privacy and not answer but just ignore those asking. You don't need to make that person feel bad by a million mods @ing them saying "NO PERSONAL QUESTIONS" and then the minions in chat all starting on them. It's not nice or if they come in half way through a talk and ask what's happening and the mods all jump and say "if you don't know then you don't need to know". That is just pure bitchy and makes people feel worthless and can really effect someone.
A few changes would make a huge difference but it depends if you are open and can self reflect. Alot of people can't.