I can’t remember if it was his documentary or something else but Kelsey was speaking and she said something like “he came home from the hospital and all he wanted to do was cry. He wanted me to go for a walk with him just the two of us to talk but there was no way I was going on a walk with him cause I knew all he’d be doing is crying and wanting to talk so I made my friend Kelsey go for the walk with him instead”. It was something like that she said and she said it in such an unemotional and uninterested way with no empathy almost like she found it ridiculous that he needed comfort in that moment and irritated with him for being sad like she just wanted him to get over it and act happy and positive.
I understand thinking positive , I understand that if one of your family members got diagnosed with a terminal illness of course it would be hard to process and hurt you to think about or talk about cause nobody would want to face the reality of someone they love is most likely going to die and doesn’t have long left but when in moments like that as much as you have the right to feel so upset , you have to think of how the person who’s been diagnosed must feel cause their pain is a million times worse cause they are the one who will die and will miss out on so many future things in life like seeing their kids grow up. Therefore you have to be considerate and supportive of that person so if they are having a day where they want to cry and feel sad and all they want is your comfort then you should provide that because if it was the other way round you would hope they would do that for you too. He needed her in that moment to go for a walk with him even if they didn’t speak about the cancer , she could of just walked with him and hugged him just the two of them together but she couldn’t even give him that cause she was more annoyed that the person who brought fame and money into her life would soon not be here anymore and losing that same level of fame and attention made her bitter.
The wanted weren’t super famous obviously but Tom still had a decent fan base who followed him and kept up with his life on social media and Kelsey benefitted a lot from Tom’s fame and cause he’s no longer here , people aren’t as interested in her cause she wasn’t in the wanted and this is why she’s desperate to keep her name out there and get famous even if it means not spending much time with her kids and using Toms illness as a way to get the fame she will selfishly do whatever it takes and shame on her cause it’s one thing to want to financially provide for your kids but it’s another thing to act the way she has.
I understand people have the right to move on and yes she’s young so it makes sense as to why she wouldn’t be single forever but 8 months in my opinion is way too soon. Yes once someone gets diagnosed you would start to grieve but the man was still alive during that time he still posted how much he was in love with her so if she fell out of love with him during that time then that’s sad or was she ever super in love with him at all it would make you question a lot of things just from how she’s been behaving. Getting a new man the same year your husband died isn’t ok. People are able to stay single way longer than that , people who have had long term relationships and been heartbroken it ended have been able to stay single for longer than that focusing on themselves mentally. I think Kelsey should of took this year to heal and focus on the kids cause they’re so little so it’s more confusing for them. Her behaviour is very hypocritical but at the end of the day she can live her life how she wants it’s just very hurtful and disrespectful to Tom, the kids and Toms family. You’d think if you were so in love with someone and been with them a very long time you wouldn’t even be thinking about being with someone else for quite some time. No disrespect to anyone who has moved on fast after losing someone but I’m just speaking about Kelsey cause she says one thing then does another and I can’t imagine Tom would of expected her to move on that quick.
As for Kelsey speaking on this morning acting like it was her interview rather than Toms you can see she’s loving being on tv and the attention. I know beforehand he might have asked her could she speak for him at times if he’s tired or nervous but she wasn’t even giving him much of a chance to speak if he he did want to , touching his arm almost as if to say it’s my turn to speak it’s weird.
