Kelsey Parker

[fcuk1979]

She is AWFUL. This woman is sick in the head. What happens with her surname now he’s passed? Does it go back to her maiden name by law or?

Why would a widows name revert to their maiden name? Most of us widows still consider and act like we are married and how upsetting that would be for our children and ourselves.

 

[NinaStar90]

If I were Tom's family I'd be furious that this relationship could progress to this thing being around Tom's kids.
A pal of mine was victim of a 'one punch' leaving him with a permanent brain injury- he now needs 24 hour care and can't communicate. All over a football match. Sickens me.

 

[zaksmama]

The post on Fabulous mag insta page.

 

[Neycroo]

She’s always loved the attention, this was in 2014. One of these two had bags of talent, and the other one was on a night out with them and thinking the paps was for her


I think it was for Ahead of the Game.

I genuinely don't know what Tom saw in her. Average looks at best, big mouth, rough as.

 

[Opinionated]

If I was one of toms family I’d be straight on the phone to a national newspaper selling my story on how she’s only in it for the fame and fortune and how they were left out at the funeral. I wouldn’t be able to keep quiet

 

[noseynopinions]

My heart just breaks for Tom. It really does. He didn't deserve any of this.

 

[Wellthisisinteresting]

She should have put everything into her kids, they need love and stability, her swanning off for fake grieving events and dating a man with that history is the LAST they need.
Wonder how the documentary will go down now 🫣

 

[singleplantparent]

I might get hate for this but the woman is a stone cold sociopath displaying glaring narcissistic personality disorder traits. She doesn’t feel, or care unless she can make it entirely about her. And the over praising of her daughter is going to set the kid up to frankly be the kid no one should have the misfortune of being “friends” with, speaking from experience, you recover from the kid and her a better insight into the parents, it’s a betrayal like no other. Honestly Kels just piss off because you’re no use to anyone unless it benefits you. It’s not worth it trying to apply logic or emotional rationality to this woman, it’ll drive you mad, she’s not right in the head at all, and I’m not saying that to be insulting, but because she’s one of many finally being exposed for what she is. She can’t express missing Tom or feeling bad for the kids because it doesn’t resonate because that’s not a concept that’s entirely about HER. Other widows might relate to some stuff she’s said, fair enough…but frankly chances are people haven’t got much to say to her and cross the steer because she’s a nasty brazen piece of work, not because it’s exclusively hard to know what to say. She’s disgusting, end of. I’ll keep saying it, Tom deserved so much better and someone else in his life entirely.

 

[Unicorn_Poop]

“Thrust into the spotlight following his death”

Erm, hardly. She lapped the attention up when he was dying and who gets themselves an agent before his passing? She’s hardly been thrust has she?!

 

[fcuk1979]

Kelsey I shall spell this out for you . You have just been away for an entire week from your children. On a trek that raised literally zero money (well 1k last time I looked I think), for a cause that wasn’t your battle (!your husband didn’t die of breast cancer). Within three days you are out at some event partying with Olivia Atwood. Now here’s the simple bit for you “Go Home and spend time with your children, preferably without the camera in their faces with your eye fucking yourself. You haven’t got a clue yet what those kids are going through - they are just babies but wait until they are older and you are going to get it tough. 5 years on and it’s only now it’s hitting my girl (11 now) like a tonne of bricks. You need to build them kids up now and they need a solid foundation. The headlines you woke up to today your kids will be able to Google, that’s going to give them one major head spin. Why contribute to their trauma? Just go home, phone off and come back if you have to when you are further down this journey as your going to look back at this and cringe.

 

[fcuk1979]

I have to be fair to her and say I completely get why she says some things in that interview:
1) people cross the road to avoid speaking to her - this defo happens to us widowers .
2) getting rid of the bed. I don’t think she’s being cold here but that bed in that house- she would only remember him being in it as sick. And despite what they posted I imagine he was a lot sicker for a lot more of the time than ever depicted on socials. Appreciate it has a different context now we know she’s met someone else.
3) loosing him before he died - yes I get that too . Ive written about this before you defo so loose the man you married. The moment my husband was diagnosed his personality changed. Remember we only saw the positive bits on insta.

anyone that’s read my comments before knows I’m defo not a fan and can’t stand her behaviour how she’s milking being the grieving widow. However as someone whose been through exactly the same it wouldn’t be fair of me not to highlight the things that I understand why she says it.

 

[CarrierPigeon]

Verifying Device

Oh where to start?

Kate Ferdinand apparently told her to “get a new bed” WHAT??!! Kate’s partner didn’t die of cancer - Rio’s wife did - and apparently she was already seeing Rio when his wife was ill!!
What the hell is Kelsey doing, and why does she spout such rubbish?

That was only the first paragraph - I haven’t read the rest yet!

ETA: Actually having read the full article - Kelsey wanted to get rid of the bed - he’s obviously been sleeping there!! And Kate F had told her not to worry about what anyone else thought. These are two peas in a pod. Vile and cashing in on people’s deaths.

 

[Smv2287]

“I’m a cover girl”

yeah, on the back of your husbands death. Can she not see how awful she is being? She makes me sick.

 

[Dont swipe up!]

I’m gonna say it
I really think Toms illness was a total inconvenience to her
And as poster above said yes I totally agree she was angry that he was ill and going to die because he was the famous one and not her!
Without him she is nothing hence why she is riding the grieving wife coat tails
She has been left with two young kids
It’s not how she imagined all this to be
They had only just got married and in her eyes it was all going so well and this was just the beginning of the wonderfull life she thought she had ahead of her and now she has been left with nothing
To be honest it’s a wake up call for all of us
We never know what’s around the corner

 

[xhc___]

Also strange how his mum only featured in it for probably around 2-3 minutes regarding the walk and then it panned out onto her party for him again. Very much all about her is the vibe I got, let’s brush his death under the carpet

I’m getting cashley Cain vibes off her tbh

 

[CarrierPigeon]

Verifying Device

That four kids by four different men giving relationship advice is like Putin giving advice on world peace.

If Ulrika was approving of my lifestyle, I’d know it was time to re-evaluate my choices.

 

[CarrierPigeon]

Tom’s brother has just posted this

 

[GrilledCheese]

Just watched the GMB interview. I don't want to rip apart and over analyze everything she said but one thing that stood out was when she talked about deciding what to keep and what to get rid of. And how Tom's items are just objects at the end of the day, whereas the memories are in her heart forever (something like that)

Sorry but his kids are too young so they won't have a memory of tom, other than what they see on videos or photos. Wouldn't it be nice to keep his things for his childrens sake??? Yes she will most likely keep things like his music related items, but what about things like his favourite coat, or his wallet, some jewellery etc. His kids would cherish that when they're older. She has the luxury of remembering moments with him. They don't

 

[Basicbasic]

His poor parents. Tom was such a lovely genuine guy.

 

[hannahsaurusrex]

She’s clearly deleting all the bad comments on her posts of her cover girl shit, cause I was scrolling through them and among ALL the positive comments there was one that said ‘I can’t believe all these negative comments!’ When I didn’t see a single one and I scrolled through all of them, I can’t even begin to explain my anger at this whole situation, the ‘love of her life’ and ‘soul mate’ has only been gone 8 months and she’s fucking ‘moved on’ I don’t care what anyone says, Tom would be heartbroken to know she’s could move on from losing him so quickly, it’s not even like they divorced and separated and she moved on quick, he literally died of a devastating illness and suffered while she forced him to try and live his normal life, that man needed love, comfort, to be able to cry if he wanted but no his hard faced wife made his last few months about her needing to be ‘positive’, I think it’s disgusting she’s saying she already lost Tom 18 months ago, no Kelsey you didn’t, you lost Tom 8 MONTHS AGO, funny because she wasn’t saying she lost him 18 months ago a few weeks back when she was ‘sobbing’ on her Instagram story about missing him saying she doesn’t know how she will ever be without him, now suddenly the news she’s got another shag of the week is out she felt like she lost him way before he died? Alright Kelsey love, whatever helps you sleep at night (in your new mattress that has nothing to do with your husband that passed)

Totally agree with all of this. She makes me furious- aware I don’t know all the ins and outs but this really hits too close to home for me- we’re going through the same thing with my sister in law….moved on after my brothers death within weeks and engaged within the year. It’s so heartbreaking for me, but moreso for my parents who have already lost their child. I can’t stop thinking of Toms family and how they must feel.